For better or worse, we live in possible worlds as much as actual ones. We are cursed by that characteristically human guilt and regret about what might have been in the past. But that may be the cost for our ability to hope and plan for what might be in the future.
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Related You must never regret what might have been. The past that did not happen is as hidden from us as the... RICHARD MARTIN STERN Each of us views life through a different lens. What we think is colored by the baggage we carry, an... LAURIE BUCHANAN, PHD We might remind ourselves that criticism is as inevitable as breathing, and that we should be none t... TS (THOMAS STEARNS) ELIOT We might remind ourselves that criticism is as inevitable as breathing, and that we should be none t... T.S. ELIOT As we are standing on a dazzling cliff, overwhelmed by a blizzard of unanswered questions, the alarm... ERIK PEVERNAGIE I like to open for a band as it brings on sort of a challenge and it makes things more interesting. ... KELLY JONES He felt weighted down by guilt and regret for what might have been his last words to all of them. KAREN ANN WIRTZ We all say we want our kids to be happy, only happy, and healthy, but we don't want that. We want th... HANYA YANAGIHARA It's hard when you have things but lose them, it's even harder when you feel that you're being left ... GARY F EVANS... The terms we use for what is considered supernatural are woefully inadequate. Beyond such terms as g... LOUIS L'AMOUR Now is the only time we have, and the only time that we have any control over. RICHARD CARLSON The past is behind, learn from it. The future is ahead, prepare for it. The present is here, live it... THOMAS S. MONSON If you have tried to do something and failed, you are vastly better off than if you had tried to do ... RICHARD MARTIN STERN Be encouraged. Hold your head up high and know God is in control and has a plan for you. Instead of ... GERMANY KENT Not," Swift said firmly, "for all the tea in China." "That expression has never made sense to m... LISA KLEYPAS The words you can’t find, you borrow. We read to know we’re not alone. We read because w... GABRIELLE ZEVIN It is difficult to live in and enjoy the moment when you are thinking about the past or worrying abo... ROY T. BENNETT My life will be what I make it," he told her. "That is true for all of us all the time. We cannot kn... MARY BALOGH Divination is the quest to understand more about the past, present, and future. In other words, Taro... THERESA CHEUNG Now is the only time we have, and the only time we have any control over. RICHARD CARLSON Time that is spent dwelling on the past will surely continue in your present moment - and the future... MICHELLE CRUZ-ROSADO There is (as I now find) no remorse for time long past, even for what may have mortified us or made ... GEORGE SANTAYANA So, tomorrow, I'm leaving. And I'm not going to let that happen again with anyone else. I'm going to... STEPHEN CHBOSKY We have lived our lives by the assumption that what was good for us would be good for the world. We ... WENDELL BERRY What our leaders and pundits never let slip is that the terrorists -- whatever else they might be --... WILLIAM BLUM I cannot remember the books I've read any more than the meals I have eaten; even so, they have made ... RALPH WALDO EMERSON We need to recognize our soldiers and military personnel more and that is what we are trying to do. ... GARY CLAY We are responsible for what we are, and whatever we wish ourselves to be, we have the power to make ... SWAMI VIVEKANANDA Just because you believe something was true in the past does not mean it will be true in the future. JEFFREY FRY An emotionally locked person refuses to let go of their sad memories and live in the now. KILROY J. OLDSTER Chewing tiger nut is good exercise for the mouth, i love its nutty taste SOTONYE ANGA These facilities were relatively rustic even for this area of the world. Other inns at least had ind... ASHIM SHANKER For better or worse, our future will be determined in large part by our dreams and by the struggle t... SWAMI SIVANANDA The Girl was gone, buried in the past. She never wanted to hear that name again. She was a woman for... CATHERINE COOKSON We are the future of our past and the past of our future,,,
We dont know what will happen in the fut... LIONY LUMOMBO VON TIRAMISU Leave the problems of God to God and karma to karma. Today you're here and nothing you do will chang... JAMES CLAVELL I've heard that Laurier might not be as strong this year as they have been in the past. However, I t... JENN SWANN The two men had a conversation. Brief, cryptic, to the point. As though they had exchanged numbers a... ARUNDHATI ROY I have to live with the facts as they are, rather than as I wish they would be or think they might b... ED KEON People who pretend to be your friend lead you up a garden path by saying everything that you want to... GARY F EVANS... We may seem the weakest and most insignificant of all the Realms, but our strength comes in other wa... CHRIS WOODING I don't have nothing to regret at all in the past, except that I might've unintentionally hu... JIMI HENDRIX In the last analysis we must be judged by what we do and not by what we believe. We are as we behave... GEOFFREY L. RUDD We fall back into the past, we jump ahead into the future, and in this we lose our entire lives. THICH NHAT HANH We have to stand up for what we believe in, even when we might not be popular for it. Honesty starts... TABATHA COFFEY It might be argued that genuine spontaneity is not really possible or desirable so long as printed s... DONAL HENAHAN Our repentance is not so much regret for the ill we have done as fear of the ill that may happen to ... FRANCOIS DE LA ROCHEFOUCAULD Our board might not look the same as others in the league. We're going to be very 'Browns specific' ... BILL REES Let each of us examine his thoughts; he will find them wholly concerned with the past or the future.... BLAISE PASCAL Eat for lunch, but let something for dinner. ERBLIN VUKAJ that there are many things that we cant understand. the past. the bad things that happened... and we... NAFISA HAJI Guilt is regret for what we’ve done.
Regret is guilt for what we didn’t do. MARK AMEND What we are left with then is the present, the only time where miracles happen. We place the past an... MARIANNE WILLIAMSON Christ was treated as we deserve, that we might be treated as He deserves. He was condemned for our ... ELLEN G. WHITE We may claim to believe in God, but we don't want to believe so much that it makes us different. CRAIG GROESCHEL Who is most likely to bother about your happiness? You, yourself. So like yourself, love yourself, c... EVERSKEPTIC Starting today, must forget what gone yesterday,appreciate what remains today & look forward what ca... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA We always may be what we might have been. ADELAIDE PROCTER We always may be what we might have been. ADELAIDE ANNE PROCTER Fueled by faith and passion for our true priorities we're going to drive against traffic in order to... CRAIG GROESCHEL I realized that we all have the ability to live in worlds of our own doing, to own what happens to u... ANDREW KENDALL We are put very much on our guard by statements that this may be a temporary pause, and that strikes... YEVGENY PRIMAKOV The more we're governed by idiots and have no control over our destinies, the more we need to te... ALAN RICKMAN Don’t regret for the past, don’t fear or stress for the future. Live in present & make it memora... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA If we look at multiple genes, the ethnic variations--such as the ones we found--are likely to be cou... BRUCE LAHN Spread love. Hug the people you care about and make sure they know that you care and appreciate them... GERMANY KENT As soon as you have a language that has a past tense and a future tense you're going to say, ... MARGARET ATWOOD Sometimes, without effort, you live in the moment. You don't regret the past or worry about the futu... REBECCA MCNUTT A totally nondenominational prayer: Insofar as I may be heard by anything, which may or may not care... ROGER ZELAZNY If we all look at life we think how nice, then we look at death and everybody goes oh you can say th... GARY F EVANS... No one knows what the cost of gas or coal is going to be in the future. But once past the capital co... LARRY FLOWERS A New Year can bring wind of change along, but what kind of "wind" is that or what kind of "change" ... MOSTAFA BAKOUSH And it's a human need to be told stories. The more we're governed by idiots and have no cont... ALAN RICKMAN I think that many people will intentionally overlook all of the lifeless facts about their relations... C. JOYBELL C. Live your life in present. You may take past as learning lesson & hope for the future but you can ma... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA Taking trips tore all of us up inside, for they seemed, each journey away from home, something that ... EUDORA WELTY In terms of dangers, such as viruses, fraud or identity theft, I don't think we were thinking ab... BOB KAHN To have the time to reminisce is one of the futures gifts. Don't think to much, don't live to fast, ... CALVIN WILSON We are the masters of our own destinies we shape and mould our lives into to the circumstances surro... GARY F EVANS... What do we tell our children? ... Haste makes waste. Look before you leap. Stop and think. Don't jud... MALCOLM GLADWELL What will make you a star is in you SOTONYE ANGA We hope nevertheless that it might be possible to find someone in the remains of the houses. WENDELIN WEINGARTNER Use your heart. Understand. Learn to see things in the now, not as they were or will be, or as ... E.J. PATTEN To our surprise, we found that treatment with it suppresses food intake. It could have potential as ... AARON HSUEH A place in the sun, that's what I am aiming for... and who could ever ask for more?' -Columbine to P... ANA CLAUDIA ANTUNES Human is what he decides to be. ZAMAN ALI It might be a rebuilding year for us, but we're going to be competitive because we have our pitcher ... ANDY OWENS The past doesn't exist. There is nothing to be sorry for. Today is when we start to live. Look... lo... ILDEFONSO FALCONES Wherever we are, our regular customers will follow us and we may pick up some new ones. I'm enthusia... BOB BAMBERG Clearly we wouldn't try and do the same thing again, but that doesn't rule out the Australian market... IAN MORRICE Our choice is between cynicism and hope. Hope is a decision you make. Hope means believing in spite ... JIM WALLIS In a day and age where it seems like women want to be with unstable, psychotic, manipulative freaks;... C. JOYBELL C. We ought to, as human beings, have the courage to seek a collective “truth” that benefits our sp... TARUN BETALA Stella says the name for the house where she and Ms. Havisham live is Stasis, Greek, or Latin, or He... CHARLES DICKENS We are not being therapists at all, but we are listening for what is important in the story. (The st... LYNETTE BULLARD Remember the past, plan for the future, but live for today, because yesterday is gone and tomorrow m... ANONYMOUS That's the good thing about it. Nothing counts except what's goin' on around you. H.L. DAVIS What counts, in the long run, is not what you read; it is what you sift through your own mind; it is... ELEANOR ROOSEVELT We need to live in the now of life, it can't be about how much we suffered yesterday or what we migh... BONNIE LEON So far as we feel sympathy, we feel we are not accomplices to what caused the suffering. Our sympath... SUSAN SONTAG
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Samuel Johnson called it the vanity of human wishes, and Buddhists talk about the endless cycle of d... ALISON GOPNIK The brain is highly structured, but it is also extremely flexible. It's not a blank slate, but i... ALISON GOPNIK What we want in students is creativity and a willingness to fail. I always say to students, 'If ... ALISON GOPNIK What happens when children reach puberty earlier and adulthood later? The answer is: a good deal of ... ALISON GOPNIK Young children seem to be learning who to share this toy with and figure out how it works, while ado... ALISON GOPNIK The youngest children have a great capacity for empathy and altruism. There's a recent study tha... ALISON GOPNIK We have lots of evidence that putting investments in early childhood education, even evidence from v... ALISON GOPNIK If parents are the fixed stars in the child's universe, the vaguely understood, distant but cons... 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ALISON GOPNIK Imagine if baseball were taught the way science is taught in most inner-city schools. Schoolchildren... ALISON GOPNIK Babies and young children are like the research and development division of the human species, and w... ALISON GOPNIK When nobody read, dyslexia wasn't a problem. When most people had to hunt, a minor genetic varia... ALISON GOPNIK Each new generation of children grows up in the new environment its parents have created, and each g... ALISON GOPNIK Being a developmental psychologist didn't make me any better at dealing with my own children, no... ALISON GOPNIK I've had three of my own children and spent my professional life thinking about children. And ye... ALISON GOPNIK Childhood is a fundamental part of all human lives, parents or not, since that's how we all star... ALISON GOPNIK What, of course, we want in a university is for people to learn the skills they're going to need... ALISON GOPNIK Our babies are like penguins; penguin babies can't exist unless more than one person is taking c... ALISON GOPNIK Imaginary friends are one of the weirder forms of pretend play in childhood. But the research shows ... ALISON GOPNIK Texts and e-mails travel no faster than phone calls and telegrams, and their content isn't neces... ALISON GOPNIK Historically, absolute IQ scores have risen substantially as we've changed our environment so th... ALISON GOPNIK Scientists learn about the world in three ways: They analyze statistical patterns in the data, they ... ALISON GOPNIK Cooking is the showy side of domesticity. ADAM GOPNIK I think that we're always drawn - particularly sophisticated people - are always drawn to the id... ADAM GOPNIK In the New Yorker library, I have long been shelved between Nadine Gordimer and Brendan Gill; an eer... ADAM GOPNIK In bookstores, my stuff is usually filed in the out-of-the-way, additional interest sections. ADAM GOPNIK I rush to add that I find the Web infinitely useful for rustling up information, settling arguments ... ADAM GOPNIK All tastes have the quality of being in some way artificial and invented. The secret of life is to h... ADAM GOPNIK Protein was the most valued ingredient 250 years ago: It was the rarest thing. Now the rarest thing ... ADAM GOPNIK I still think the best classic meal in New York is a coffee-shop breakfast - you sort of can't s... ADAM GOPNIK You can't have a decent food culture without a decent coffee culture: the two things grow up tog... ADAM GOPNIK The coffee shop is a great New York institution, but it has terrible coffee. And the more traditiona... ADAM GOPNIK There are as many attitudes to cooking as there are people cooking, of course, but I do think that c... ADAM GOPNIK Writing is the process of finding something to distract you from writing, and of all the helpful dis... ADAM GOPNIK The World Series is played in my doubtless too-nostalgic imagination in some kind of autumn afternoo... ADAM GOPNIK Going to a restaurant is one of my keenest pleasures. Meeting someplace with old and new friends, or... ADAM GOPNIK [T]he relentless note of incipient hysteria, the invitation to panic, the ungrounded scenarios--the ... ADAM GOPNIK We breathe in our first language, and swim in our second. ADAM GOPNIK Yet human intelligence has another force, too: the sense of urgency that gives human smarts their dr... ADAM GOPNIK American long for a closed society in which everything can be bought, where laborers are either hidd... ADAM GOPNIK Good editorial writing has less to do with winning an argument, since the other side is mostly not l... ADAM GOPNIK [A]s military history reveals, a bad plan is often better than no plan, especially if the people on ... ADAM GOPNIK You know, for most of its life bluegrass has had this stigma of being all straw hats and hay bales a... ALISON KRAUSS If you think about it, I was at college, and then three months later, I was a massive pop star. It... ALISON MOYET Within three months I had gone from being this black sheep of the town to suddenly becoming a pop st... ALISON MOYET Generally, if a good script comes in I read it, and if it appeals to me, it appeals to me. And it do... ALISON DOODY I'd like to take more pictures of real celebrities. It would be fabulous to photograph Brad Pitt... ALISON JACKSON Being the boss anywhere is lonely. Being a female boss in a world of mostly men is especially so. ALISON GOMME Fly high... Where the only chill that cuts through you is the wind. Where your heart pounds from exh... VIRGINIA ALISON Where we're located, we're kind of far away from opportunities and activities that might be offered ... ALISON VINCENT The other part of the program features things the children haven't been exposed to at home or within... ALISON VINCENT With some parents' work schedules, some children might be here at the school for 11 hours. ALISON VINCENT The bottom line is that it's for the kids and the parents so they can all have the best experience p... ALISON VINCENT Dog cases cause such severe neighbor problems. The dog cases, they get so contentious. ALISON TATE Well, I care. If you don't do this, you could die. ALISON TATE It's a good thing he didn't touch me. I would have decked him. ALISON TATE He's not even close to ready. He is going to lose everything he's gained this far . . . . To show hi... ALISON TATE It's hard whenever we lose an animal. ALISON SWANK Their counterparts in the wild are out in the weather, too. ALISON SWANK We think the overriding cause of her death was something other than drowning. ALISON SWANK One of the two suspicions is that there was an indirect lightning strike which may have caused the z... ALISON SWANK We're unsure how many are down there. ALISON SWANK We do have quite a few people stopping by offering condolences. ALISON SWANK The group putting this together was looking for a hurdle that would be doable within the time span, ... ALISON SMITH It helps that we know the drugs so we can input it faster. ALISON SMITH We saw it as a unique opportunity to use our knowledge to make this run smoothly. ALISON SMITH Today, the landscape has changed dramatically. ALISON SMITH It sends $3 of your tax money that you already pay into the fund. It sends a message that Maine peop... ALISON SMITH We're all going to miss Jack. ALISON SMITH In both fours, we viewed the race as an opportunity to work on our race plan against a fast opponent... ALISON REYNOLDS There's no evidence to suggest that cooling relations has dampened business. ALISON REYNOLDS Many people have used the argument that opening up trade leads to political reform and social reform... ALISON REYNOLDS The Tibetan people will not be satisfied until there is political change which will give them genuin... ALISON REYNOLDS The police have promised not to do that again and we will demonstrate at every point in this visit. ALISON REYNOLDS What we would like to see is Tony Blair making a public statement of concern over these issues. ALISON REYNOLDS I'm hearing these words about renewal of the ecumenical movement, but I'm looking for a tangible fra... ALISON PRESTON Tracy was frustrated at the start of the season. She wasn't scoring and the links were which wasn't ... ALISON PRESTON Annie was frustrated in the preseason but she's steadily improved and has seven goals. ALISON PRESTON Everyone was upset when Mackenzie went down. When she came back, their level of play went back up. S... ALISON PRESTON Pequannock's only lost two games, both to Madison, so they're obviously a good team. ALISON PRESTON When we played Roxbury in the first round, we found out the final would be on our field. It's exciti... ALISON PRESTON We've got no superstars but they're getting the job done. ALISON PRESTON Kids who commit serious crimes shouldn't go scot-free. But if they are too young to vote or buy ciga... ALISON PARKER Frankly, from a human rights perspective, that raises concerns, ALISON PARKER We're asking for a recognition that these are child offenders and they should have access to parole ... ALISON PARKER For example, Georgia rarely sentences children to life without parole, but it has youth crimes rates... ALISON PARKER This would bring us in line with the rest of the world and make the US act in accordance with human-... ALISON PARKER [Human rights advocates say that the use of juvenile life without parole, or LWOP, is by one measure... ALISON PARKER The big thing was we knew Claudia wasn't going to be able to move that well?[She] really gutted it o... ALISON OJEDA We had chance after chance and you only get so many opportunities and we didn't convert. ALISON OJEDA As long as we have confidence going into our matches, we have a great shot at winning some of those ... ALISON OJEDA Winning sure makes everything more exciting. I thought we played very well. We've been stressing eve... ALISON OJEDA As long as these girls have someone to lead them, they will go above and beyond what they are suppos... ALISON OJEDA We played in those tournaments to prepare us for the spring, and I think we will be well prepared wh... ALISON OJEDA We'll get a lot more eyes on these photos. Our mission was never to keep them in a box. ALISON NORDSTROM These are instructions in desire. It's a staged, idealized vision of a perfectly happy household. ALISON NORDSTROM I suspect that Rothstein was looking for an opportunity to show the dignity of African Americans, ev... ALISON NORDSTROM The Office of War Information asked Parks to provide inspirational photos to support the war effort.... ALISON NORDSTROM He consciously tried to preserve aspects of old Paris. For example, he didn't shoot the Eiffel Tower... ALISON NORDSTROM I was writing and I have three kids. I was occupying my time with them but it was difficult. ALISON MOYET I was a single parent, and I was prohibited from working. ALISON MOYET I love singing in French. I don't think in French. Sometimes when you sing in another language becau... ALISON MOYET I have never had another job and I don't have a mortgage. ALISON MOYET I have never done any other job. I have sung in bands since I was 15. I left school completely unqua... ALISON MOYET I had been with the label since I was 21. The label wanted shiny pop but I didn't. I found a little ... ALISON MOYET I chose not to work. It was one of those sticky things that happen in people's careers when you have... ALISON MOYET I came from a small town and at school in one class there was me, a member from Depeche Mode and som... ALISON MOYET As you get older, your windows of opportunity close. I needed to make a record once and for all that... ALISON MOYET As I was growing up, French was the language in the house, so when I started school there were lots ... ALISON MOYET It's always a good thing to have places to go and things to do. ALISON MORANO Destinations with a capital D. ALISON MORANO The major goal is going to be, they will never say the Democratic Executive Committee wasn't there f... ALISON MORANO You'll see more of us in the media. You'll see more of us at events. You'll see more position statem... ALISON MORANO This is just the beginning. We are very pleased. ALISON MARQUISS We're working on a campaign for the next season and we're also executing on the remediation plan to ... ALISON MARQUISS We're working on a campaign for the next season and we're also executing on the remediation plan to ... ALISON MARQUISS If there were something that were shutting down companies, of course it is vital that our company co... ALISON MARQUISS I think with these projections the [Centers for Disease Control and Prevention] will be in a good po... ALISON MARQUISS We're approaching the finish line and look forward to providing vaccine for people to get vaccinated... ALISON MARQUISS It's an ongoing process. ALISON MARQUISS Our third-quarter earnings report is October 25, so we hope to have a more concrete number then, or ... ALISON MARQUISS The [FDA] release yesterday was the last regulatory step. ALISON MARQUISS [Full FDA clearance has not yet been achieved, but] there are no regulatory hurdles except supplemen... ALISON MARQUISS Truth and Consequences ALISON LURIE We can lie in the language of dress or try to tell the truth; but unless we are naked and bald, it i... ALISON LURIE As one went to Europe to see the living past, so one must visit Southern California to observe the f... ALISON LURIE There is a peculiar burning odor in the room, like explosives. the kitchen fills with smoke and the ... ALISON LURIE I mean, I like to think of myself as being strong and independent, but I definitely wasn't like that... ALISON LOHMAN I mean, God, I'm so lucky right now with the opportunities that I've had. There's nothing to worry a... ALISON LOHMAN I like to take a character and develop it. ALISON LOHMAN We are all mistaken sometimes; sometimes we do wrong things, things that have bad consequences. But ... ALISON CROGGON Being the boss anywhere is lonely. Being a female boss in a world of mostly men is especially so. ALISON GOMME It is not given to us to know what difference we can make, and perhaps we can make no difference at ... ALISON CROGGON It is only the darkness in our own hearts that will defeat us, in the end. ALISON CROGGON There is no shame in not knowing something. The shame is in not being willing to learn. ALISON CROGGON While the heart beats, hope lingers. ALISON CROGGON Love is one of the true mysteries,' he said at last. 'The truest and the deepest of all. One thing, ... ALISON CROGGON My homosexuality remained at that point purely theoretical, an untested hypothesis. But it was a hyp... ALISON BECHDEL The writer's business is to find the shape in unruly life and to serve her story. Not, you may note,... ALISON BECHDEL My father once nearly came to blows with a female dinner guest about whether a particular patch of e... ALISON BECHDEL What would happen if we spoke the truth? ALISON BECHDEL In this pause, I suddenly saw something very clearly. Whatever it was I wanted from my m... ALISON BECHDEL It was not a triumphal return. Home, as I had known it, was gone. ALISON BECHDEL Grief takes many forms, including the absence of grief. ALISON BECHDEL It was a vicious cycle, though. 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ALISON SWEENEY It's funny because I'm a sucker for glitz and glitter when it comes to clothes and nail poli... ALISON SWEENEY The number one mistake is giving pets table scraps. I made the mistake thinking I was showing my dog... ALISON SWEENEY I save my dreams and hopes for my kids. When I'm making a wish under a bridge or tunnel, it'... ALISON SWEENEY People think, 'Oh, I'm loving myself by sitting on this sofa for four hours.' Love yours... ALISON SWEENEY With reality TV, sometimes it's amazing chemistry and you get these gems that turn out to be eve... ALISON SWEENEY I wasn't eating the right kinds of calories. I didn't know about healthy carbs such as brown... ALISON SWEENEY I always cringe when people tell me they don't eat breakfast, as though that's a good thing.... ALISON SWEENEY Sunscreen is my number 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5 tip. I'm a fanatic, partially because I live in L.A. an... ALISON SWEENEY One of the things I like best about 'Biggest Loser' is being around people who are trying to... ALISON SWEENEY My husband and I have known each other since kindergarten. I had a crush on him in school, but we ne... ALISON SWEENEY Because Bin Laden's culture doesn't permit the worship of images, they understand how powerf... ALISON JACKSON I do a lot of cardio. I think it's super important, especially for women. I don't have a tre... ALISON SWEENEY I'm not satirical in a traditional way. What I do is more about creating caricatures and cartoon... ALISON JACKSON Honestly, my favorite kind of dancing is just lettin' loose. There's something great about t... ALISON BRIE I found power in accepting the truth of who I am. It may not be a truth that others can accept, but ... ALISON GOODMAN I just want to act. I just want to do the work. ALISON LOHMAN I don't think I'll ever be comfortable with the idea of being famous. ALISON LOHMAN I don't know... I don't want people to know everything about me. ALISON LOHMAN I did musicals from about age 10 to 18. ALISON LOHMAN For Astrid, no matter what challenges they go through, they are going to face each other. It's hard ... ALISON LOHMAN But, you know, it really depends on the character. Age doesn't really matter. ALISON LOHMAN But you're not necessarily ever going to be handed a script where you can say: it's all done and per... ALISON LOHMAN The competition was Coke vs. Pepsi 10 years ago. Our business has evolved over the past 10 years, an... ALISON LEWIS