You can demand courtesy but you have to earn respect.

Mutual respect and courtesy is one of the things that holds this vague organization together and that is in short supply.

"Respect is more than giving consideration of one’s feelings. It is showing common courtesy for another human being." ~Tom Baker

The 4-H component ties back into the social skills. The children will be learning sharing, courtesy, respect, cooperation.

Liking me is optional
. . .
Respecting me is not!

We don’t have to like each other. We just need to respect each other.