Mutual respect and courtesy is one of the things that holds this vague organization together and that is in short supply.

You can demand courtesy but you have to earn respect.

It's a safety issue as well as common courtesy.

That is why Rowan Williams is looking so haggard nowadays.

"Respect is more than giving consideration of one’s feelings. It is showing common courtesy for another human being." ~Tom Baker

The 4-H component ties back into the social skills. The children will be learning sharing, courtesy, respect, cooperation.