Andrew J. Bernstein quote: "When a friend is sick, I see the situation for what it is, not what it isn't, and I offer to help as much as she wants, not as much as I want."

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ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

You can't tell yourself that your stress is produced in your head and feel better. You still nee...
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To believe that your husband, wife, parents, kids, boss, job, bank account, or body is even partly r...
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We all enjoy pushing ourselves to accomplish our objectives. But we don't need stress to get the...
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People around the world now complain about stressors everyday, and the word shows up throughout prof...
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The reason humans experience so much more stress than other species isn't just because we think ...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

Stress is not the spice of life any more than arsenic is. And without it, you won't feel bored.
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People often say that stress is a motivator. What we're referring to when we say this is really ...
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Some people are so used to experiencing stress that they don't remember what life was like witho...
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During the financial crisis, I worked with hundreds of executives who struggled as a result of their...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

The less you think counterfactually, the less you experience stress. Stress, in this light, isn'...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

The elusive truth is that there is nothing stress-producing in the physical world. Things simply are...
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Find the beliefs that are strangling your feelings, challenge them for your sake as well as theirs, ...
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The more you worry, the more you throw off the delicate balance of hormones required for health.
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Stress is a byproduct of subconscious beliefs you have about the world. You can't choose not to ...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

Stress is never a given. There are people who get divorced amicably. There are people who pack up an...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

Stress is the negative whirlwind of emotions that gets imposed on top of our stimulation and engagem...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

The truth is that stress doesn't come from your boss, your kids, your spouse, traffic jams, heal...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

Worrisome thoughts and their resulting feelings are a form of self strangulation. They not only stra...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

We need to distinguish between stress and stimulation. Having deadlines, setting goals, and pushing ...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

If you're successful and stressed out, you're succeeding in spite of your stress, not becaus...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

Negative thoughts stick around because we believe them, not because we want them or choose them.
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

What's taking place during stress is actually much simpler than a transaction between stressful ...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

Remember that stress doesn't come from what's going on in your life. It comes from your thou...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

The number of stressors has multiplied exponentially: traffic, money, success, work/life balance, th...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

It's time we learned the truth about stress. It's time we identified the thoughts that actua...
ANDREW J. BERNSTEIN

Nothing is given to man on earth - struggle is built into the nature of life, and conflict is possib...
ANDREW BERNSTEIN

The SEC has made a good-faith effort to solve the problem, but unfortunately [the proposals] cannot ...
ANDREW BERNSTEIN

Our group is trying to convince the Securities & Exchange Commission (SEC) to make its deregistratio...
ANDREW BERNSTEIN

The deadline for compliance with very costly internal control reporting regulations is next year and...
ANDREW BERNSTEIN

First, he must hold rational values, and to do this he must be a thinker.
ANDREW BERNSTEIN

The hero is valorous because he stands up to every threat directed against his values. Heroism requi...
ANDREW BERNSTEIN

A hero has faced it all: he need not be undefeated, but he must be undaunted.
ANDREW BERNSTEIN

The hero is the man dedicated to the creation and / or defense of reality-conforming, life-promoting...
ANDREW BERNSTEIN

A hero holds purposes appropriate to man and is, therefore, a thinker.
ANDREW BERNSTEIN

I'm an academic. It's publish or perish.
DANIEL J. BERNSTEIN

In general, the Internet was not designed to accommodate deliberate failures to communicate.
DANIEL J. BERNSTEIN

The most important function of a bibliographic entry is to help the reader obtain a copy of the cite...
DANIEL J. BERNSTEIN

Don't let a Narcissist, or any other kind of vampire, get away with nonverbal disapproval. Unspoken ...
ALBERT J. BERNSTEIN

In graduate school, I learned this simple distinction: when people are driving themselves crazy, the...
ALBERT J. BERNSTEIN

Just because it's automatic doesn't mean it works.
DANIEL J. BERNSTEIN

I do engineering, not religion.
DANIEL J. BERNSTEIN

The average user doesn't give a damn what happens, as long as (1) it works and (2) it's fast...
DANIEL J. BERNSTEIN

I won't be satisfied until I've put the entire security industry out of work.
DANIEL J. BERNSTEIN

I have discovered that there are two types of command interfaces in the world of computing: good int...
DANIEL J. BERNSTEIN

I thank God for not making me a computer scientist.
DANIEL J. BERNSTEIN

From a security perspective, if you're connected, you're screwed.
DANIEL J. BERNSTEIN

I have had the opportunity to work with Andy Lincoln a lot. He's got a remarkable process. He ju...
ANDREW J. WEST

How many times does the system have to fail before immediate action is taken?
ANDREW J. SPANO

Here you have a unique situation where children are literally showing up at the doors of sex offende...
ANDREW J. SPANO

There is no way the department is responsible for the deaths of these children. This department is a...
ANDREW J. SPANO

I've always considered it one of our most benign rides.
ANDREW J. SPANO

It is one of the safest parks in the world.
ANDREW J. SPANO

I grew up in Lake Orion, Mich. What was best about Lake Orion where, where we grew up was it was a s...
ANDREW J. FEUSTEL

My relief dissipates as James Blunt's yowling voice is overwhelmed by the scream of locking brakes:e...
ANDREW J. KEIR

The lowest form of popular culture - lack of information, misinformation, disinformation and a conte...
CARL BERNSTEIN

The players in the promotion business today are, by and large, not in it for the art anymore. It'...
SID BERNSTEIN

What made that fight extraordinary was not just how action-filled it was, but the high level on whic...
AL BERNSTEIN

We wanted to give back and get involved and make a difference in their lives. These are great kids. ...
AL BERNSTEIN

I spent a lot of time with a crown on my head. [On her beauty pageant days]
AL BERNSTEIN

Sometimes the fool who rushes in gets the job done
AL BERNSTEIN

To the victor belong the responsibilities.
AL BERNSTEIN

To achieve great things, two things are needed; a plan, and not quite enough time.
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

Even at the end of a presidential election campaign, we have no way to know what Mitt Romney really ...
CARL BERNSTEIN

There had always been black people in and out of our house, and from the outset I had been taught th...
CARL BERNSTEIN

The Congress is a dysfunctional institution; it's broken. One of our three branches of governmen...
CARL BERNSTEIN

In the John Paul II days, Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger had the advantage of staying in his cupboard - t...
CARL BERNSTEIN

If you are a great news organization, you can't have the best obtainable version of the truth if...
CARL BERNSTEIN

All institutions have lapses, even great ones, especially by individual rogue employees - famously i...
CARL BERNSTEIN

Radical thought has inspired many of the great political and social reform movements in American his...
CARL BERNSTEIN

John Paul was the first modern pope to grow up in a secular culture: He attended public schools, dan...
CARL BERNSTEIN

There's no way to know the motives of another person totally, even a person that you know very w...
CARL BERNSTEIN

The pressure to compete, the fear somebody else will make the splash first, creates a frenzied envir...
CARL BERNSTEIN

For the first time, the weird and the stupid and the coarse are becoming our cultural norms, even ou...
CARL BERNSTEIN

Public policy in the twentieth century was about protecting and expanding the social compact, based ...
CARL BERNSTEIN

The most important ethical issues and the most difficult ones are the human ones because a reporter ...
CARL BERNSTEIN

The great thing about Watergate is, is that the system worked. The American system worked. The press...
CARL BERNSTEIN

As the nation divided into Federalists and Republicans, each group called the other the worst name p...
R.B. BERNSTEIN

Music, because of its specific and far-reaching metaphorical powers, can name the unnamable and comm...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

The key to the mystery of a great artist is that for reasons unknown, he will give away his energies...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

Success is often the result of taking a misstep in the right direction.
AL BERNSTEIN

Spring being a tough act to follow, God created June.
AL BERNSTEIN

The failures of the press have contributed immensely to the emergence of a talk-show nation, in whic...
CARL BERNSTEIN

Technique is communication: the two words are synonymous in conductors.
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

The second fiddle. I can get plenty of first violinists, but to find someone who can play the second...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

The greatest felony in the news business today is to be behind, or to miss a big story. So speed and...
CARL BERNSTEIN

Increasingly, the picture of our society as rendered in our media is illusionary and delusionary: di...
CARL BERNSTEIN

Easy DOESN'T do it.
AL BERNSTEIN

I think it is time we learned the lesson of our century: that the progress of the human spirit must ...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

Sometimes the fool who rushes in gets the job done.
AL BERNSTEIN

A fool and his money get a lot of publicity.
AL BERNSTEIN

A liberal is a man or a woman or a child who looks forward to a better day, a more tranquil night, a...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

The lowest form of popular culture -- lack of information, misinformation, disinformation, and a con...
CARL BERNSTEIN

When the thunder rumbles,
Now the age of gold is dead.
When the dreams we've clung to
Tryin...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

Inspiration is wonderful when it happens, but the writer must develop an approach for the rest of th...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

Beauty is in the heart of the beholder.
AL BERNSTEIN

We are in the process of creating what deserves to be called the idiot culture. Not an idiot sub-cul...
CARL BERNSTEIN

Adolescence is a period of rapid changes. Between the ages of 12 and 17, for example, a parent ages ...
AL BERNSTEIN

Inspiration is wonderful when it happens, but the writer must develop an approach for the rest of th...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

When you stop to think about it, so many films today where we don't have that kind of contact ar...
ELMER BERNSTEIN

I went to James Monroe High School, a big school in the East Bronx. My first promotion was the first...
SID BERNSTEIN

If you want to recapture your youth, just cut off his allowance.
AL BERNSTEIN

The lowest form of popular culture - lack of information, misinformation, disinformation, and a cont...
CARL BERNSTEIN

Any great art work … revives and readapts time and space, and the measure of its success is the ex...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

Adding schools that are very, very good football schools, there's no reason to believe [the ACC] can...
ANDY BERNSTEIN

Adding schools that are very, very good football schools, there's no reason to believe (the ACC) can...
ANDY BERNSTEIN

Nashville was one of those teams that was really suffering financially under the old system.
ANDY BERNSTEIN

Look at the Big East,
ANDY BERNSTEIN

One issue is, what are they going to cost and the other is, what is their quality of life going to b...
AMY BERNSTEIN

I call them the vanguard of the Baby Boomers. Looking at their experience shows that risk factors li...
AMY BERNSTEIN

For some people, meeting a $250 deductible, plus a new monthly premium, early in the year may be tou...
AMY BERNSTEIN

A folder is your best friend.
AMY BERNSTEIN

People who are dual eligible have the right to switch Part D plans every month without penalty.
AMY BERNSTEIN

Things are getting better, but they're not getting better as fast as they used to be. It's not level...
AMY BERNSTEIN

They are really at risk because they are starting to have health problems.
AMY BERNSTEIN

What happens to this group is very important because it's going to affect every other group.
AMY BERNSTEIN

There has never been a new item in Medicare as big as this prescription drug program and its compone...
AMY BERNSTEIN

I think all good reporting is the same thing - the best attainable version of the truth.
CARL BERNSTEIN

The American Revolution and Declaration of Independence, it has often been argued, were fueled by th...
CARL BERNSTEIN

This will be our reply to violence: to make music more intensely, more beautifully, more devotedly t...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

Spring being a tough act to follow, God created June.
AL BERNSTEIN

In the olden days, everybody sang. You were expected to sing as well as talk. It was a mark of the c...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

People have called from all over the country and offered to donate icons.
BOB BERNSTEIN

It's part of the branding of the product, and it's been very effective throughout the years.
BOB BERNSTEIN

I'm tickled to death that we can do this in Kansas City because it's another attraction for Kansas C...
BOB BERNSTEIN

Oh, yeah. I get that. People think I did it for the publicity. As much publicity as I'm getting, I'm...
BOB BERNSTEIN

We wanted to put up enough to get somebody talking. What's a bun worth? It's kind of a strange quest...
BOB BERNSTEIN

The state system measures growth, while the federal government says if you're not at this status bar...
BOB BERNSTEIN

It started out as a fun thing. But it's attracting an awful lot of attention.
BOB BERNSTEIN

I've always kind of been a collector.
BOB BERNSTEIN

What I can't figure out is why anyone would steal it. They can't sell it on eBay, it's not fit to ea...
BOB BERNSTEIN

We had no idea of his motivations. And even now some of his motivations are unclear.
CARL BERNSTEIN

The lowest form of popular culture -- lack of information, misinformation, misinformation, and a con...
CARL BERNSTEIN

During the past year, he'd pressed Woodward to tell him the name, arguing that the current editor sh...
CARL BERNSTEIN

the best obtainable version of the truth. It's a simple concept, but difficult to do.
CARL BERNSTEIN

We had very little time -- Bob and Felt in the garage together had very little time to have meetings...
CARL BERNSTEIN

Not on a paper run by a media conglomerate, ... And the public may not react with the same indignati...
CARL BERNSTEIN

The greatest felony in the news business today is to be behind, or to miss a big story. So speed and...
CARL BERNSTEIN

I was the first to promote The Beatles in the States, and Ed Sullivan called me first about them bef...
SID BERNSTEIN

Music . . .can name the unnameable and communicate the unknowable.
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

The key to the mystery of a great artist is that for reasons unknown, he will give away his energi...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

Any great work of art . . . revives and readapts time and space, and the measure of its success is t...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

Music . . . can name the unnameable and communicate the unknowable.
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

This leads to a complete misrepresentation of fact. From the public's standpoint, there is an implic...
DONALD BERNSTEIN

That's the sixth compromise offer we have made in the last seven days, and the musicians' union has ...
JED BERNSTEIN

It's a Big Ten team. Ohio State always had traditionally a great team. This year they're a bit down ...
LENNY BERNSTEIN

better understanding of finding the truth in politics.
CARL BERNSTEIN

Beyond this, I can only give you my personal assurance that our sole motivation in working on 'The F...
CARL BERNSTEIN

Many retailers ended up looking more like Scrooge than Santa.
JODIE BERNSTEIN

It was a glaring omission. It speaks volumes about what they think about their case.
JERRY BERNSTEIN

The last decade has been professionally exhilarating for me and I am so proud of the many things tha...
JED BERNSTEIN

I cannot live without books.
R.B. BERNSTEIN

I'm thrilled to be here. It's an honor to be chosen.
ALAN BERNSTEIN

Their shtick is offering 100 wines by the glass and appealing to women. But if a senior EVP of a For...
ALLEN BERNSTEIN

We created this segment, ... Flattery is very nice -- all these other people have come after us. -- ...
ALLEN BERNSTEIN

We wanted to make the bar more of a happening place, if you know what I mean,
ALLEN BERNSTEIN

Our news organizations and our reporters should be going after the best obtainable truth, not the se...
CARL BERNSTEIN

He has zero criminal record. This is his first interaction with the criminal justice system.
ADAM BERNSTEIN

Debra is a very exciting artist. It's an opportunity for us to see someone who is going to be nation...
ADAM BERNSTEIN

Being forced to hire people that you don't need to do a job -- it doesn't relate at all to the creat...
JED BERNSTEIN

[The virtual orchestras were to be a temporary measure and] a shield, ... because all of Broadway is...
JED BERNSTEIN

Broadway now is presented in about 90 cities across the United States, and the touring business seem...
JED BERNSTEIN

Unlike books and products that are available everywhere, Broadway isn't distributed that way. Even i...
JED BERNSTEIN

The cost of producing both the live show in Times Square and the television broadcast was prohibitiv...
JED BERNSTEIN

If you had to buy a ticket to each of these musicals, you'd have to spend $2,000 or something.
JED BERNSTEIN

This special concert, performed by some of the superstars from both worlds, will not only highlight ...
JED BERNSTEIN

The two-way traffic between New York and Hollywood has been a fact of life since Hollywood was inven...
JED BERNSTEIN

You can't buy the visibility and credibility that Oprah's name represents. It's going to be an enorm...
JED BERNSTEIN

The job market is slowly tightening. We are wringing out the slack. But we're only six months into a...
JARED BERNSTEIN

Nobody was there to watch how I was doing the massage and I had the wrong posture and I wasn't using...
DAVID BERNSTEIN

It's definitely out there. There are incompetent and even dishonest immigration lawyers working all ...
MATT BERNSTEIN

Clearly, these are not the grandiose architectural wonders one would liken to European cathedrals or...
KEN BERNSTEIN

This was such an easy thing to do. You didn't have to go militantly marching in the front lines for ...
BARBARA BERNSTEIN

We want to spread awareness to people who aren't already environmental experts. We want to make them...
STEVEN BERNSTEIN

"Life without music is unthinkable. Music without life is academic. That is why my contact with musi...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

It was an initiation into the love of learning, of learning how to learn . . . as a matter of interd...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

We're not going to solve this problem with a patchwork approach at the state level. It's a national ...
JOSH BERNSTEIN

Television is just the wrong medium, at least in prime time, to teach science. I think it is hopeles...
JEREMY BERNSTEIN

Never speak more clearly than you think
JEREMY BERNSTEIN

Companies can bring their own assets in the form of Java code and Web services and stitch those into...
DAVID BERNSTEIN

Symbol is a pioneer in wireless technology and we are pleased with today's outcome as it validates o...
AARON BERNSTEIN

It's an old trick dressed up in new electronic garb and a sort of cyberspace jargon.
JODIE BERNSTEIN

The problem isn't simply that families are facing higher prices, particularly at the pump. It's also...
JARED BERNSTEIN

It is truly history in the making that the country music world is coming to New York, and joining wi...
JED BERNSTEIN

[T]he number of neurons in the brain is very much larger than the number of components in a computer...
JEREMY BERNSTEIN

Going into the tournament, we recognized the considerable parity of the top four teams in the confer...
LENNY BERNSTEIN

In the olden days, everybody sang. You were expected to sing as well as talk. It was a mark of the c...
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

I'm not interested in having an orchestra sound like itself. I want it to sound like the composer.
LEONARD BERNSTEIN

They've kept these guys in isolation or solitary confinement, so to speak, for three years. I think ...
STEPHEN BERNSTEIN

Understanding the correlation between peer-based education programs and HIV rates will contribute to...
ALAN BERNSTEIN

messy, given the significant charges IBM is expected to take.
SANFORD BERNSTEIN

At zero there was the flash. The first thing I saw was a yellow-orange fireball . . . . A mushroom-s...
JEREMY BERNSTEIN

It's an amazing and diverse team. Fraud fighters from the U.K. to Uruguay, from Korea to Kansas, hav...
JODIE BERNSTEIN

We want them to know that the borderless Internet marketplace is not a free zone. Together with our ...
JODIE BERNSTEIN

These scams target very vulnerable people. They prey on people who are plagued by poor credit -- peo...
JODIE BERNSTEIN

The commission complaint alleges this campaign was used to promote an addictive and dangerous produc...
JODIE BERNSTEIN

We hope Americans continue to use the Internet for truthful information, but we also want them to ha...
JODIE BERNSTEIN

This campaign was used to promote an addictive and dangerous product to children and adolescents und...
JODIE BERNSTEIN

You may be on your way to being a victim.
JODIE BERNSTEIN

When a friend is sick, I see the situation for what it is, not what it isn't, and I offer to help as much as she wants, not as much as I want.

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