Some guys like to hot up their cars; we like to make films - everyone has their own passion.

If you're not 100 per cent familiar with the territory, this can be a very good idea. An architect or a surveyor will know the industry, and be able to talk the same language as the builders. Even if it's 10 per cent of the total cost of the project, it can be money extremely well spent when it comes to securing your own peace of mind.

Be upfront, but don't be angry.

Infinitely more important than sharing one's material wealth is sharing the wealth of ourselves -- our time and energy, our passion and commitment, and, above all, our love.

She grew tired of shielding her body,
For societal expectation and propriety,
Double standards and sobriety,
Ideologies of prudent cries,
And boys who made her tell them lies.

She wanted a man who’d destroy her reputation,
One strong enough to feed her unruly temptation,
Not leave her alone in risk of damnation.
Someone strong enough to make her feel,
Like a free woman who needn’t yield,
Run with her naked through a field.
Live on the fringe free of restriction,
Treat her as a woman, undo the affliction.
A man who’d take her breath with desire,
Someone with whom her passions could conspire,
A man strong enough to keep up with her fire.

Thus we see that the all important thing is not killing or giving life, drinking or not drinking, living in the town or the country, being unlucky or lucky, winning or losing. It is how we win, how we lose, how we live or die, finally, how we choose.