Show me anyone, sexual or asexual, who isn’t in some way fucked-up and I’ll gag, ... The question she should be asking herself is not, ‘Am I fucked up?’ but, ‘Do I need sex to be happy?’

Show me anyone, sexual or asexual, who isn't in some way fucked-up and I'll gag. The question she should be asking herself is not 'Am I fucked-up?' but 'Do I need sex to be happy?' It doesn't sound like she does, but the question is probably worth exploring with a best friend and a six-pack. If she concludes that she needs sex in her life, then there's an industry that will be more than happy to serve her.

Show me anyone, sexual or asexual, who isn't in some way fucked up and I'll gag, ... The question she should be asking herself is not, 'Am I fucked up?' but, 'Do I need sex to be happy?' It doesn't sound like she does, but the question is probably worth exploring with a best friend and a six-pack. If she concludes that she needs sex in her life, then there's an industry that will be more than happy to serve her.

I realized that I was asexual because when I was young, all of my friends started being attracted to people, and I had no idea what they were talking about.

[For a second opinion we turn now to David Jay:] Show me anyone, sexual or asexual, who isn't in some way fucked-up and I'll gag, ... The question she should be asking herself is not 'Am I fucked-up?' but 'Do I need sex to be happy?' It doesn't sound like she does, but the question is probably worth exploring with a best friend and a six-pack. If she concludes that she needs sex in her life, then there's an industry that will be more than happy to serve her.

Sexuality is like any other activity. There are people for whom skydiving, chocolate cake and soccer are their world. But some people don't like skydiving, chocolate cake or soccer. There's no reason to focus your energy and attention on something you feel no reason to do anything about.