[For a second opinion we turn now to David Jay:] Show me anyone, sexual or asexual, who isn't in some way fucked-up and I'll gag, ... The question she should be asking herself is not 'Am I fucked-up?' but 'Do I need sex to be happy?' It doesn't sound like she does, but the question is probably worth exploring with a best friend and a six-pack. If she concludes that she needs sex in her life, then there's an industry that will be more than happy to serve her.