Resting in the question is embracing uncertainty, knowing the answer will unfold in its own time. And this is really the practice of simply living. While not always easy, it is a necessary process that frees me and makes me a clear vessel for the unexpected gifts the universe has in store me.

Let go and live in the moment! The struggle comes from clutching. When I let go of the burden of my expectations, the illusion of control and look beyond the limited horizons of how I want the world to be, I open myself to possibilities too big to fit into my head.

What if you have all the pieces and the puzzle still doesn't fit?

In a world where bad behavior is celebrated with a reality television salary and being mean to one another is the rubric used to determine passion and strength, people often mistake my kindness for weakness. It isn't until it is too late do these folks realize that the openness of my heart and breadth of my compassion also flows inward and is what gives me the strength to walk away without looking back.

God answers sharp and sudden on some prayers, And thrusts the thing we have prayed for in our face, A gauntlet with a gift in it

We don't know the answers for sure. There's still some uncertainty because we don't have perfect data.