Assertiveness is not just what you say in your message but it is also how you say it & that's important. Assertive communication works because it respects you and others. It makes sense because you're willing to stand up for just cause and express your thoughts and feelings.

Assertive & determined people stick to values. Others may shift opinions immediately,but assertive & determined people resist the urge to change the course of action.. Indecisiveness is hardly a problem for them. They know exactly where they are going and are determined to overcome all distractions and hindrances.

Assertiveness is the ability to clearly state what one expects so that there will be no misunderstandings. One must be assertive to get the desired results. Along with assertiveness comes the responsibility to clearly understand what other expects from you.

Assertiveness requires boldness that most low self esteem do not have. They are often too fearful to tell the truth or what they want, or share their feelings. They are withdrawn and isolated & feeling embarrassed, humiliated, devastated, depressed. To cover up their short comings , they may become aggressive,defensive, sarcastic or rude, even violent such as is the case with domestic, gang, and teen violence.

Assertive communication makes sense because you're willing to stand up for just cause and express your thoughts and feelings. It also demonstrates that you're aware of the rights of others and are willing to work on resolving conflicts.It's not just what you say in your message but also how you say it that's important. Assertive communication is direct and respectful.Assertive communication works because it respects you and others.

Assertiveness is a skill. Skill of mutual understanding, mutual respect & ability of successfully delivering your message. If you communicate in a way that's too passive or too aggressive, your message may get lost because people are too busy reacting to your delivery.