Your subconscious's goal is to recreate unresolved childhood issues and then hopefully mend them.

Remember: You are the common denominator in all your relationship problems. Wherever you go, your pesky repeated issues go - until you shed a blazing light of insight upon them.

There are about 20 issues in there that are unresolved.

Each day, you can awake and focus on small, easy goals you can accomplish in the short term - goals that, over time, will lead you to your long-term goal.

There are unresolved issues with two of the players.

Issues unresolved come back to bite you, not once but often, until it is attended to.