You failed? Congratulations, you tried something. Keep your head up, keep going, we're pulling for you :)

To keep a lamp burning we have to keep putting oil in it.

When I have tried and failed, I shall have failed.

Change requires an abundant amount of energy. Once complete though, a much smaller amount of energy is then needed in order to maintain, yet again.

One step at a time. Focusing on the next step is the best way to avoid overwhelm.

Are you just complaining, or are you proposing a solution? Anybody can complain, it takes creativity and guts to propose a solution.