Without the balancing context of everyday life, all you have is the news, and news by its nature is generally bad.

In everyday life there is always manana. There is no urgency.

...повседневная жизнь полна мелких постоянных забот.

Even someone you've inhabited rooms with, and seen naked everyday, seen sitting on the toilet through a half-opened door, can fade out after a while and become an outline.

On Being Afraid to Use the Elementary School Bathrooms to Defecate

“Son, you're complaining to the wrong man. I can shit anywhere, at any time. It's one of my finer qualities. Some might say my finest.

Looks can be decieving