Whether it's a Christian or a non-Christian, there's nothing like suffering to show us how small, needy, and not in control we are. Suffering has a way of sobering us up to the realization that we can't make it on our own, that we need help, that we're broken.
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Related When we direct our attention toward our suffering, we see our potential for happiness. We see the na... THICH NHAT HANH Pain is inevitable... Suffering is optional. We will all have to endure trauma and challenges. What ... DAVID MICHIE Most of us think we're too busy or too important to rest for a day. CRAIG GROESCHEL We create our own unhappiness. The purpose of suffering is to help us understand we are the ones who... WILLIE NELSON Contrary to what we may have been taught to think, unnecessary and unchosen suffering wounds us but ... BELL HOOKS We can’t control the things or people that are external to us, that happen to us, but we can contr... GYALWA DOKHAMPA It's a rare and precious thing to be close to suffering because our society - in many ways - tel... SHARON SALZBERG No healthy Christian ever chooses suffering; he chooses God's will, as Jesus did, whether it means s... OSWALD CHAMBERS We must also realize that nothing happens without a purpose. Nothing. Not even broken hearts. Not ev... YASMIN MOGAHED 35. God is entitled to a portion of our income—not because He needs it but because we need to give... JAMES C. DOBSON We may claim to believe in God, but we don't want to believe so much that it makes us different. CRAIG GROESCHEL If this is going to be a Christian nation that doesn't help the poor, either we have to pretend that... STEPHEN COLBERT Suffering invites us to place our hurts in larger hands. In Christ we see God suffering – for us. ... HENRI J.M. NOUWEN Thirdly, even if we assume that the world is governed by purpose, we need only add that this purpose... WALTER KAUFMANN [W]e need not become fixated upon our own suffering, whatever its origin. We offer it up, thus parti... JEAN-YVES LELOUP It's a theme born out of the Christian faith rather than a pagan understanding of the universe. Both... SARAH ARTHUR We have to look deeply to see how we grow our food, so we can eat in ways that preserve our collecti... THICH NHAT HANH The only thing suffering teaches us is that we are capable of suffering. MELVIN JULES BUKIET Peoria Christian was a good opponent for us. I was pleased with the way we responded after (Peoria C... TONY BAUMAN […] Everyone tries to make his life a work of art. We want love to last and we know that it does n... ALBERT CAMUS Our efforts to disconnect ourselves from our own suffering end up disconnecting our suffering from G... HENRI NOUWEN All of us, at some time or other, need help. Whether we’re giving or receiving help, each one of u... FRED ROGERS That's why we seize the moment try to freeze it and own it, squeeze it and hold it. EMINEM It is our suffering that brings us together. It is not love. Love does not obey the mind, and turns ... URSULA K. LE GUIN Whether we fear pain and suffering or not, pain and suffering will come to everyone. Why not keep ou... RADHANATH SWAMI Being a Christian does not guarantee us that we are going to have a trouble-free life, but we know t... RUTH ADKINS I knew that suffering did not enoble; it degraded. It made men selfish, petty and suspicious. It abs... W. SOMERSET MAUGHAM We're in a position where we can control our own destiny. We don't need anybody to help us out. We'v... BRIAN BLESSIE Our vision is so limited we can hardly imagine a love that does not show itself in protection from s... ELISABETH ELLIOT — This world is full of trouble, umfundisi. — Who knows it better? — Yet you believ... ALAN PATON In a way life begins to feel better once we realize that our sins do not own us and our fear can not... BRIELL ADAMS We don't need flowery words about inequality to tell us that, and we don't need a party that... ARTUR DAVIS Hath not a Jew eyes? Hath not a Jew hands, organs, dimensions, senses, affections, passions? ...If y... 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ANNE LAMOTT Most of all, we remain focused on our Rock that never moves. CRAIG GROESCHEL Whether one is Hindu or a Muslim or a Christian, how you live your life is proof that you are or not... MOTHER TERESA When it's clear that we have a commitment to God that comes before anything else in our lives, most ... CRAIG GROESCHEL A desire to be in charge of our own lives, a need for control, is born in each of us. It is essentia... ROBERT FOSTER BENNETT A desire to be in charge of our own lives, a need for control, is born in each of us. It is essentia... ROBERT F. BENNETT The reality is that most of us communicate the same way that we grew up. That communication style be... KRISTEN CROCKETT Without suffering, there's no happiness. So we shouldn't discriminate against the mud. We have to le... THICH NHAT HANH We are doing this as a way of supporting Vermont agriculture. Our view is in a state where we see fa... IAN LUTZ The creative process taps into our deepest subconscious, and we are each of us sex-crazed - products... LYNN COADY We use the word cross in our hymns, in our piety, in our prayers, and in our pastoral language. But ... JOHN HOWARD YODER The problem of evil assumes the existence of a world-purpose. What, we are really asking, is the pur... W. T. STACE We are the offspring of history, and must establish our own paths in this most diverse and interesti... STEPHEN JAY GOULD The Christian does not think God will love us because we are good, but that God will make us good be... C.S. LEWIS The moment we accept our pain is the moment we release our suffering. Suffering is created when we o... ALARIC HUTCHINSON We need to look him in the eyes and tell him that he is responsible for the deaths of our children..... SUSANNA DUDIYEVA Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond meas... MARYANNE WILLIAMSON It is when we are up against death, when we find ourselves in despair, that the God of cross is near... ANDREW ROOT Every suffering is caused by a thought,what we need to do is stop thinking of that thought to elimin... PATTY MEDINA The creative act is also in a small way a suffering act - we start out with our ego, this hope of ma... MICHAEL LEUNIG I can't control what happens on the outside but I can learn to control what happens on the inside. W... AKIROQ BROST We all need to accept that everybody is different and that we cannot control the feelings, beliefs o... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA There are countries in Africa who also need our help, but were not there because theres no oil there... JEFF WHITE We need myths that will help us to identify with all our fellow-beings, not simply with those who be... KAREN ARMSTRONG The Christian leader of the future is called to be completely irrelevant and to stand in this world ... HENRI J.M. NOUWEN God put you on earth with a divine assignment- something prepared in advance for you to do. I've fou... CRAIG GROESCHEL Who are we? Where do we come from? Why are we this way and not some other? What does it mean to be h... DR. CARL SAGAN The cross always simultaneously means rejection, and that the disgrace of suffering is part of the c... DIETRICH BONHOEFFER We hope that this donation eases at least some of the deep suffering of all those affected by Hurric... JIM MORAN The problem with loneliness is that, unlike other forms of human suffering, it teaches us nothing, l... ADAM BAGDASARIAN America has drifted from its Christian roots, and organizations like this have got to stand up for o... CHRIS GILL When we can't understand the science behind something in this world, we make up mythological entitie... CHELSIE SHAKESPEARE To choose a hardship for ourselves is our only defense against that hardship. This is what is meant ... CESARE PAVESE Convinced that we're living the whole time that we're dying. We decide to go out walking the wh... TEGAN QUIN Pain and evil confront us as a surd. Suffering, our own and that of others, is an experience through... KALLISTOS WARE Some people think that our planet is suffering from a fever. Now scientists are telling us that Mars... FRED THOMPSON We are Muslim, our fathers were Muslim, our grandfathers were Muslim. Imagine if your son told a pol... ABDUL MANAN We have this window of opportunity; we have a chance to make something real happen. Something possib... MICHELLE OBAMA Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond meas... MARIANNE WILLIAMSON The words you can’t find, you borrow. We read to know we’re not alone. We read because w... GABRIELLE ZEVIN BioViva is trying to help improve human health and wellbeing, and alleviate suffering. We are not tr... LIZ PARRISH a major reason why we wake up each day is to know the real reasons why we wake up each day ERNEST AGYEMANG YEBOAH We have become disconnected from our true selves, and naturally, this has produced a deep sense of l... JOSEPH P. KAUFFMAN ...the books we need are the kind that act upon us like a misfortune, that make us suffer like the d... FRANZ KAFKA The universe is so vast, so immense, we can never expect to explore it all. It is in effect, not so ... CHRISTINA ENGELA Gradually, I began to resent Christian school and doubt everything I was told. It became clear that ... MARILYN MANSON Life is suffering. Life is not resistance to suffering. The point of life is to suffer. This is why ... RAINN WILSON Let us not underestimate how hard it is to be compassionate. Compassion is hard because it requires ... HENRI J.M. NOUWEN For a believer, Christian faith is true to the human heart, not in the sense that any old thing we f... FRANCIS SPUFFORD If we all look at life we think how nice, then we look at death and everybody goes oh you can say th... GARY F EVANS... I'll tell you that when an innocent person is killed, we never go about asking or inquiring whet... HASSAN ROUHANI I began to understand that suffering and disappointments and melancholy are there not to vex us or c... HERMANN HESSE None of us has control over the economy, the job market, or anything else in the global sense. But w... EDWARD WHITACRE, JR. We are a generation of women that has listened to the much louder voices of parents, teachers, emplo... CONNIE STEVENS It is only when all our Christian ancestors are allowed to become our contemporaries that the real s... LYNN HAROLD HOUGH We have to find a way to bring our energy and level of concentration with us on the road. At home, w... MAMADI DIANE If they didn't put a body on us, they just jumped over us. Their quickness, speed and height were to... ED GOETZ Sometimes I wonder how much of our suffering we allow or impose on ourselves simply in search of our... DARRELL CALKINS You hear about our conservative background and know that we're Christian guys, but we're not... TYLER JOSEPH I like the word 'fuck'. The word means what it means, but it also means whatever you need it to mean... LISA GLATT
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