When (The World According To) Garp was published, people who’d lost children wrote to me. ‘’I lost one, too,’’ they told me. I confessed to them that I hadn’t lost any children. I’m just a father with a good imagination. In my imagination, I lose my children every day. (afterword)
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Related One of the things I loved about my childhood was that I didn't feel like I lost my innocence too... DANIELLE DE NIESE I was a very religious child - I went to synagogue at least once, sometimes twice, a day. And I reme... YEHUDA AMICHAI I had people when I was younger trying to feel me up. Older men. I just told them to get lost. JEREMY IRONS I've lost my wife. My children have lost their mother. GOLAM MAOLA I just can't think how I would go on without children having lost Edith already... It's too upsettin... OTTO FRANK I felt the earth shake and a strong gust of wind, then I felt mud at my feet. All the children, incl... DIDITA KAMARENTA I felt like I was cheated out of my career in the UFC. In my mind and in my heart, I never lost to a... BROCK LESNAR When I got large enough to go to work, while employed I was reflecting on many things that would pre... NAT TURNER I lost my time and my life, and I almost lost my mind, too. It's not fair. They put me in jail witho... AHILAN NADARAJAH I lost two things dear to me this year. I lost my husband and I lost my house, JOYCE SMITH I lost my faith in God when I lost my daughter to Cancer, the beast. I begged, I cried, I offered my... VINCE NEIL I just can't think how I would go on without children having lost Edith already... It's too ... OTTO FRANK I lost my temper," I finish. "I lost my temper. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to." "Well, no one mea... REBECCA HARRIS I was told by my mom when I was very young not to drink and to make good decisions so for those who ... ANDRE WILLIAMS I've told my children that when I die, to release balloons in the sky to celebrate that I graduated.... ELISABETH KUBLER-ROSS Many times, when I was having a hard time with one of my children, God would always remind me that H... CHARLIE "TREMENDOUS" JONES I'm a great lover of children. I never thought that one day I'd actually be a father, but I&... ELTON JOHN I want to have children, but my friends scare me. One of my friends told me she was in labor for 36 ... RITA RUDNER I tend to have really interested conversations with employers. They enjoy my interviews and they alw... CRYSTAL EVANS I've told my children that when I die, to release balloons in the sky to celebrate that I gradua... ELISABETH KUBLER-ROSS I’m lost. And it’s my own fault. It’s about time I figured out that I can’t ask people to ke... ANNE SEXTON Yes, I have four children. Four children with whom I spend a good part of every day: bathing them, c... AYELET WALDMAN These years after my liberation were years of reconstruction, and I think I made the right decisions... INGRID BETANCOURT I was scared when I lost my mother, my father, my brother, my sister. ISRAEL KAMAKAWIWO'OLE I was moaning and grieving as if I lost one of my own children. It was probably one of the most real... HUNTER TYLO I believe in imagination. I did Kramer vs. Kramer before I had children. But the mother I would be w... MERYL STREEP I used to think that I could never lose anyone if I photographed them enough. In fact, my pictures s... NAN GOLDIN Extra ... I lost everything. I didn't just lose one thing. I left my house ... with $8.38 to my name... TOM SIZEMORE My father was frightened of his mother. I was frightened of my father and I am damned well going to ... KING GEORGE V I lost my dad. He lost his tomorrows and I lost all the tomorrows with him. You could say that now, ... CECELIA AHERN The first World Cup I remember was in the 1950 when I was 9 or 10 years old. My father was a soccer ... PELE They lost their parents. They lost their normal surroundings and often feel they are at fault. I fel... GORDON JOHNSON When she called me and I heard her voice, I just went to pieces. The rest of the day, I lost all my ... MARSHA NORMAN I was surrounded by hundreds of drowned children, heads in the water, their little feet in the air.<... RUTA SEPETYS I told my father I wanted to play the banjo, and so he saved the money and got ready to give me a ba... JACKSON BROWNE There are children everywhere out there that are lost. The scary thing is the list of children we ha... JOANNA CLARK He's my father married to my sister. That makes me his son and his brother-in-law. That is such ... RONAN FARROW At the point when I lost my father, it really made me want to be like a father and be like my father... SCOTTIE PIPPEN A mother should give her children a superabundance of enthusiasm; that after they have lost all they... AUGUSTUS HARE Like the average American that I hang out with, and like my father before me, I raised all my childr... TED NUGENT My children have stolen my dreams in a very literal sense. I've lost months in the minutes and h... ALEXI ZENTNER Marriage does figure in my life, as I do want to have children. But I could also consider having chi... JACQUELINE FERNANDEZ When I’m away from you I am lost. But, when I’m with you I am lost in you. ELIZA FREED When I was little, my mother always told me to beware of strangers. Today, I tell my children to bew... PATTY RASE HOPSON The majority of parents we come into contact with have lost their faith and therefore have lost any ... LUCINDA VARDEY My brothers’ faces haunt me. I hear their children, my nieces and nephews, asking me why I came ho... KEVIN WALLIS It takes me along time to lose my temper, but once lost I could not find it with a dog MARK TWAIN Since my brother died in 1982, my parents and I had formed a shaky tripod of a family; now that I... ANN HOOD 'Each One Lost' I wrote the day after I got home. My week in Afghanistan was a very short tr... BRUCE COCKBURN I loved and protected my own children like a fierce mama bear, but one of them died anyway. It was a... CINDY SHEEHAN Face after face contorted in hate, men, women, children. Whatever lies had been voiced against me ha... ANTHONY RYAN I was incredibly determined - I wrote short stories, I wrote the beginnings of novels. I wrote a lit... CANDACE BUSHNELL I have three children who are absolutely devastated. My older kids (understand) but my 5-year-old do... DANIELLE BIMBER I always wanted to write for children. When I was growing up, we were really poor. My mother had lef... JEWELL PARKER RHODES Books... I can’t live without books. To me, a book is better than any movie. All I need is a good ... BELLE AURORA I have lost my mother, my father, my five, and ninety relatives in Poland. Poland is for me a cemete... SIMON WIESENTHAL I can write anywhere. I actually wrote more than I ever did when I had small children. My children w... JAMAICA KINCAID I hope I am remembered by my children as a good father. ORSON SCOTT CARD The people, they relate to me. In my life, I've had a lot of heartache. I lost friends after my brai... JERMAINE WILLIAMS My fantasy was that I was the long-lost switched-at-birth child of wealthy eccentrics. One da... ROBERTA PEARCE The really best acting is children in a playground or in a backyard. They're just lost in their ... NOLAN NORTH I would say I am viewed as the oldest teenager in my family because they say I never grow old. I mea... BETTY WRIGHT It's going to be a little further for me to take my children, but the Montessori has been good for m... CONNIE SMITH Was he my home, then, my homecoming? You are my homecoming. When I’m with you and we’re well tog... ANDRé ACIMAN My greatest strength as a child, I realize now, was my imagination. While every other kid was readin... BARBARA CORCORAN When I was a child I wanted to be a vet. I'd come home with "lost" kittens and dogs. M... PHILIPPA GREGORY Pregnancy is barbaric. … The husband's guilty waning of sexual desire, the woman's tears in fr... THE CHILDREN I beheld the trappings of upper-middle-class comfort. The big-screen TV and VCR. The crush of name-b... THE CHILDREN I used to save all my rejection slips because I told myself, one day I'm going to autograph these an... JAMES LEE BURKE Every time I told my story, I lost a bit, the smallest drop of pain. ALICE SEBOLD When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to ... JOHN LENNON When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to ... JOHN LENNON Oprah is signed on to help, and a lot of celebrity friends have agreed to help me raise money for Ma... CRISS ANGEL That's once again the same people who told me I was too small, the same people who said I couldn't w... RAY LEWIS I saw them the day they were putting the poles in and then it was just left. It's a mystery because ... ATHENA HREVATIS So many people got us through the loss, ... Certainly beginning with family on all sides, tremendous... MARY BONO He told me once
The saddest thing that can befall the soul,
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IRVING KIRSCH Patients who trust their doctors and have a psychological expectation of getting better could trigge... IRVING KIRSCH Depression comes back over time in about 90 percent of people on antidepressants. Studies show that ... IRVING KIRSCH Nocebos often cause a physical effect, but it's not a physically produced effect. What's the... IRVING KIRSCH Anything that instills a sense of hope will at least temporarily help treat depression. IRVING KIRSCH There seem to be many causes of depression. One cause is profound loss, grief. Economic hardship we ... IRVING KIRSCH Psychotherapy works, and some types of therapy have been shown to be much more effective than antide... IRVING KIRSCH