When people are very damaged, they can often meet the world with a kind of defiance.

Scrimgeour: "It's time you learned some respect!"
Harry: "It's time you earned it.

What's coming will come and we'll just have to meet it when it does.

But I was the most unashamed lone parent you were ever going to meet.

I think you could ask 10 English people the same question about class and get a very different answer.

Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.