What's important with money and how it is used is how it needs to be mutually satisfying, much like sex.

If you fight about money, that's normal.

The money needs to be there, and all the rest flows.

Drinkers feel better physically, and more sensitive, and more ready for sex.

She may have been drunk, but she wanted the sex and that is legal. She needs to take responsibility for the fact that she drank too much and doesn't remember it.

It is easier to talk about money -- and much easier to talk about sex -- than it is to talk about power. People who have it deny it; people who want it do not want to appear to hunger for it; and people who engage in its machinations do so secretly.