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Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

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MIHALY CSIKSZENTMIHALYI It promotes them being in a social environment, and to party. I don't understand why it's allowed.
DENNIS GALLAGHER It gives students a social environment, a cultural environment. A community.
AL WILLIAMS I told them we want to be the doers. We want to do it to them instead of getting do-ed.
AL WESTOVER We want to spread awareness to people who aren't already environmental experts. We want to make them...
STEVEN BERNSTEIN I've told them what I want from them and what I won't have. If I've got to be hard, then I will be. ...
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ARI BIXHORN I yelled them updates, I told them what the status was. I told them he's out of seizure and told the...
ADAM SIMPKINS I didn't want to get on them too bad because I saw so much better out of them. I didn't want them to...
DEREK STINGLEY I told them from my experience [that] to put a victim and a perpetrator together in a very loose env...
GEORGE MALOOF Most people see what they expect to see, what they want to see, what they've been told to see, w...
VINCENT BUGLIOSI The two real leads in 'Children of Men' are Clive Owen and the social environment. You know,...
ALFONSO CUARON I told them that if I am with you, I'll always regret what I've done and I don't ever want to regret...
PAUL RUSESABAGINA It's just prudent to have a chemical safety program, ... We don't want to have a sterile leaning env...
DEAN BAKER Customers have told us they want to be served what they want, not just what the convenience store of...
MAURICE MINNO We want to reinforce the church sites and let them know the environment is going to be clean and saf...
DEBBIE MILLER Inspire them to want so much more than what's normal.
CRAIG GROESCHEL Young people are very astute; they know what they want and the kind of work environment they want to...
LORETTA WALKER Romance is like having to go through security at airports in order to get on the plane.
BOBBY W. MILLER I told him, 'I want you to call them right. Don't call them like you see them,'
BOBBY BRAGAN But social justice and the environment are very tied together in my head.
DAR WILLIAMS Childish egocentrism is, in its essence, an inability to differentiate between the ego and the socia...
JEAN PIAGET In life, it is not a case of what you want but more like what you would like in a case of any decisi...
GARY F EVANS... The danger of civilization, of course, is that you will piss away your life on nonsense.
JIM HARRISON I'm not sure what can be told to them.
BRIAN BOYLE We want to provide a link between the classroom environment and what you are doing outside of the cl...
RICHARD CLARK I want them to be excited about being there, but not satisfied. It's like what (athletic director) S...
JOANNE BOYLE We do not know, in most cases, how far social failure and success are due to heredity, and how far t...
J. B. S. HALDANE We do not know, in most cases, how far social failure and success are due to heredity, and how far t...
J.B.S. HALDANE We do not know, in most cases, how far social failure and success are due to heredity, and how far t...
JOHN B. S. HALDANE

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