Well, it's true that I have been hurt in my life. Quite a bit. But it's also true that I have loved, and been loved. and that carries a weight of its own. A greater weight, in my opinion. It's like that pie chart we talked about earlier. in the end, I'll look back on my life and see that the greatest piece of it <i>was</i> love. The problems, the divorces, the sadness... those will be there too, but just smaller slivers, tiny pieces.