Vocabulary is a matter of word-building as well as word-using.

Every usage, no matter how bizarre or nonstandard, fascinates me, as it tells me something about the way language is evolving.

It hasn't been a problem with Ben, I think we worked together very well, we don't have rows.

The story of English spelling is the story of thousands of people - some well-known, most totally unknown - who left a permanent linguistic fingerprint on our orthography.

So what's the point of using words nobody else knows or can say comfortably? I just don't understand that.

Prose, words in their best order. Poetry, the best words in the best order.