To experience life you have to kind of face a lot of fears.

Where it gets clear for me about the privacy issue is with my kids because they didn't choose this kind of life. I'm an incredibly open person, though - I'll tell anyone anything.

For me, the biggest thing is someone who's kind. I'm not into the bad-boy thing.

I just can't stand the sound of my voice sometimes, or how my face looks. There are always a few times at every premiere when I just have to cover my eyes when I'm up there.

I love to play women who are strong and unapologizing and kind of rough around the edges and don't care what anybody thinks about that.

I was 30 when I did 'The Matrix.' When you turn 30, your life and your world view change. I remember feeling relieved - it was like I was seeing things in a deeper way.