To a woman sexual intimacy is more a tool to get mentally close to her partner than merely a means to physical pleasure.

Sexual intimacy is not the destination, it is the path - the path that leads to mental union.

Sex is not just about going in or letting in, it is really about welcoming your dearly beloved into the deepest regions of your psyche which are inaccessible to anybody else.

Sex is only a tool in love, not love itself.

Do not seek for the best partner, but seek for the person who makes you a better version of yourself.

Try to respond to your partner instead of reacting.