They can relax together. And when you're around Jennifer, that's amazing, because I never thought that girl could relax.

She was talking away while he was carrying her around on his back.

She exuded the attitude that one day she was going to be in front.

[Perhaps most important, Judd, who helps choreograph Lopez's dance routines,] doesn't have a problem with her being the star in the relationship, ... He's a very secure person.

[No doubt Judd, 32, was the supervising nurse. Friends say the former backup dancer is trying to teach his Type-A wife to take a breather every now and then.] They can relax together, ... And when you're around Jennifer, that's amazing, because I never thought that girl could relax.

I thought we did some nice things. We built a lead, then you relax a little bit and they made some plays, but it wasn't where we didn't have control of the game.