There was a lot of stress and assumptions made without me even saying anything, which was very upsetting.

When assumptions were made that I was going to bail out there was a little part of my brain that thought 'I am going to do to prove them wrong'. In the end that wouldn't be coming from my heart and doing what was right.

If the policy only said consent is not given by saying 'no', variations in how people respond to stress in sexual situations are being ignored.

I know it's very upsetting.

Of course, no one saw him do this, no one is saying they saw him do it.

The most important things to say are those which often I did not think necessary for me to say — because they were too obvious.