There can only be two basic loves... the love of God unto the forgetfulness of self, or the love of self unto the forgetfulness and denial of God.

The peace of the celestial city is the perfectly ordered and harmonious enjoyment of God, and of one another in God. (City of God, Book 19)

He loves Thee too little, who loves anything together with Thee, which he loves not for Thy sake.

Thou hast made us for thyself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it finds its rest in thee.

There are wolves within, and there are sheep without.

Oh! that I might repose on Thee! Oh! that Thou wouldest enter into my heart, inebriate it, that I may forget my ills, and embrace Thee, my sole good?