The key to creating harmony is the discussion. And holidays are a great time to begin the discussion.

More often, it's the lawyers who have to work it out. And once a lawyer gets between your kids -- say the lawyer sends a letter to a sister on behalf of a brother -- their relationship won't be the same anymore.

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We celebrated holidays together, ... He came over to my house all the time.

Holidays remind me of a happy time.

The holidays are such a hectic time. Staying home on New Year's Eve is a way to begin the New Year more peacefully.