The goal of individuation is wholeness, as much as we can accomplish, not the triumph of the ego.

The act of consciousness is central; otherwise we are overrun by the complexes. The hero in each of us is required to answer the call of individuation. We must turn away from the cacaphony of the outerworld to hear the inner voice. When we can dare to live its promptings, then we achieve personhood. We may become strangers to those who thought they knew us, but at least we are no longer strangers to ourselves.

...it is almost always the case that whatever has wounded you will also be instrumental in your healing.

Just as your cells hold memories of trauma, your body also remembers wholeness – feeling relaxed, happy, easy, comfortable and pain-free.

Cheney had no problem letting Bradford be first chairman; he didn't let his ego get in the way of a very strategic and smart business combination. Egos are what screw up most combinations in my sector. Having an ego that is in check is probably a good idea for a vice president, too.

How can I be substantial if I do not cast a shadow? I must have a dark side also If I am to be whole