The fact of the matter is that you cannot make other people do anything without their consent. No matter how good a leader you are or no matter how well you give advice to help others, they are the only ones who can truly help themselves.

Be master of your own thought which drives strength, not slave of emotion which makes you malleable to break at any point.

Be yourself .Be courageous & bold.Strive to make every moment beautiful to make your day worth meaningful.

Identify your bad habits, or negative aspects of your personality, and resolve them.

You are the best person to know the best way to achieve your dreams. Although people will always have a say about what you do, & they will come out with the suggestions. It is your choice whether you will accept them or not. It is okay to listen to them, but you should be smart enough to decipher which suggestions are worth following and which ones are mere distractions from what you should really be doing.

Never allow yourself to be a playful object for others. Never let yourself be satisfied on less what you actually deserve. When someone tries to make you or feel you low make yourself confident & strong enough to overcome the onslaught inflicted on you.You have the choice to create the life your heart is yearning to live.