the big stereotype . . . that because you are gay you are somehow sexually active, which is false.

It's a clear statement by the Vatican that gay men are not welcome in seminaries and religious orders, ... In Good Company: The Fast Track from the Corporate World to Poverty, Chastity and Obedience.

It's a clear statement by the Vatican that gay men are not welcome in seminaries and religious orders,

If to join the club you have to say I'm gay or I'm straight, sure, that's a label. But (the word gay-straight alliance) isn't putting a label on a kid; this is the name of a club. It's going to take a court to decide it.

The homosexual community wants me to be gay. The heterosexual community wants me to be straight. Every [writer] thinks, I'm the journalist who's going to make him talk. I pray for them. I pray that they get a life and stop living mine!

Damn if these characters aren't gay to me. What Jake might have meant is that these guys live outside of a social construction of a gay identity.