The best way to evaluate any relationship is to measure how this friendship contributes to the fulfillment of your calling and goal in life

If you do not know the goal of your life, you will abuse it

People having a victim complex invite someone to tease them into their lives though they could have mutually beneficial relationships

People with victim mentality attracts people in their lives that tease them, abuse them and even bully them instead of building mutually benefitting relationships

If you do not know the goal of your life, you will start to abuse your life

Do not be embarrassed to examine your relationship with your Christian friends