Stay focused on self-direction and personal growth and away from finger-pointing. The behavior of love is what counts, so be specific about your actions.

You're both human and prone to error. Instead of focusing on what you do wrong, focus on what's right and let go of the little mistakes.

The idea that couples that play together stay together is very true. Like all good things, it takes planning and creativity.

Couples need to let go of the notion that something's wrong if you're not enraptured with each other all the time. After the early enchantment stage, it takes proactive behavior to keep your love alive.

I don't want to accept it because it's ridiculous to lose to someone like that. It was all on us. We just got down on ourselves and I stopped trusting her and she stopped trusting me.

It was just a hard match to lose. Last year was good because we knew we had (this) year. This year, it just kills me that we couldn't win this.