Speak to their positive intent, especially when they appear to have none, and you are more likely to bring out their better side.

Whatever most captures your mind controls your life.

The stronger the signal you send yourself of your highest puThe stronger the signal you send yourself of your highest purpose, the more likely you are to notice ways to serve itrpose, the more likely you are to notice ways to serve it

Becoming more deeply connected with those you admire and love bolsters, in you, the traits you most admire in them. Recognize behaviors that most upset you so, like defensive driving, you see potential “crashes” sooner and avoid them.

Speak sooner to sweet spot of shared interest to cultivate a meaningful connection, first step to creating something greater together.
Share the story in which others see a role they want to play so they’ll re- share it to make it “our” story
Whoever most vividly characterizes a situation usually determines how others see it, talk about it, and make decisions about it

Strangers can be consequential when you want to practice an atrophied or unexplored facet of you, as they don’t know how you usually act.