Self-pity is spiritual suicide. It is an indefensible self-mutilation of the soul.

We are on a journey not to be perfect, but to be whole.

Dance like David did till your healing comes

When you awaken and are self aware, you heal. When you heal, you heal the world.

Forgiveness means we have chosen the path of love, compassion, and healing!

But I think it is so important to not rush the process of grief- & I do not mean moping & wallowing. There's a difference, & often the three get mixed into the same cake & presented as- SELFISH (& often times self-inflicted) AGONY.
Not the same thing.