Relationships may become wrecked by a quirky syndrome: the “Ain't broke, don't fix”-syndrome. When there is no interaction in the neural network and no breakthrough into the mind but only a shallow skin experience, living together might be very torturous. If a heartfelt bond has not been molded, nothing can be broken and thus nothing needs to be fixed. (“I wonder what went wrong.”)
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ERIK PEVERNAGIE We might not be able to know what reality is about, but we can’t but be aware of the explicitness ... ERIK PEVERNAGIE A promise is a gift and a gift is a symbol of a social relationship. The donor is aware that it crea... ERIK PEVERNAGIE The day we decide to drop the flimsy makeshift scenarios in our cluttered mind and eschew the ‘all... ERIK PEVERNAGIE Women emerging like aliens in a hesitant future, in a men’s world with impervious codes, may feel ... ERIK PEVERNAGIE Is love just a butterfly? Love can tell us so many things about the deep waters of our inner self an... ERIK PEVERNAGIE When love becomes a play of squirming mindgames or a tinderbox of mental conflicts, emotional benchm... ERIK PEVERNAGIE When a soothing wind blows gently love through the thistledown of expectations, hope may inveigle th... ERIK PEVERNAGIE The vagaries of love with all its unpredictable and capricious meanders may be a hurdle in keeping l... ERIK PEVERNAGIE Instead of breaking or cherry-picking the rules, many just follow the inner rules, which have been i... ERIK PEVERNAGIE When we are able to break free from the imprisonment of our little, small self-thinking and dare to ... ERIK PEVERNAGIE When the past gets its teeth into our daily life, it may get to grips with an astringent reality and... ERIK PEVERNAGIE Many men remain spoiled boys that have never grown up. Women are prepared to raise them and take pai... ERIK PEVERNAGIE Everyone has prejudices, but some can correct them, others stick in the mud and remain diehard. ERIK PEVERNAGIE Since we live in a world of appearances, people are judged by what they seem to be. If the mind can'... ERIK PEVERNAGIE Definitions and meanings change all the time. Truth and reality are very volatile, indefinite, multi... ERIK PEVERNAGIE Love is like a musical score, sometimes very tuneful, creating a harmony of sounds, sometimes extrem... ERIK PEVERNAGIE Some fail to bear in mind that everyone is sentenced to death. Death is a treacherous virus that str... ERIK PEVERNAGIE Some people think it's a law that when productivity goes up, everybody benefits. There is no eco... ERIK BRYNJOLFSSON My grandfather taught me generosity. He sold snow cones in Harlem. I went with him at 5 and he let m... ERIK ESTRADA There is in every child at every stage a new miracle of vigorous unfolding, which constitutes a new ... ERIK ERIKSON The power of social media is it forces necessary change. ERIK QUALMAN It had not yet been named Silicon Valley, but you had the defense industry, you had Hewlett-Packard.... ERIK QUALMAN The toilet from time to time imparted to the boat the scent of a cholera hospital and could be flush... ERIK LARSON My inspiration to do comedy came from many places. Saturday mornings, I would watch Bob Hope and Jer... ERIK GRIFFIN The Lusitania is important, of course, because this is where Germany began its maritime campaign usi... ERIK LARSON In 1933, the Gestapo was founded to become - to be a secret police agency to keep tabs on political ... ERIK LARSON Whenever I finish a book, I start with a blank slate and never have ideas lined up. ERIK LARSON To solve the problems of today, we must focus on tomorrow. ERIK NUPPONEN Since I joined Congress, I've been shocked at how many times we were forced to vote on 1,000-plu... ERIK PAULSEN I've really tried to strip my writing of as many adjectives and adverbs as I possibly can. ERIK LARSON With the growing reliance on social media, we no longer search for news, or the products and service... ERIK QUALMAN I went to public school on Long Island, and it seemed every year we were being taught that you had a... ERIK LARSON Healthy children will not fear life if their elders have integrity enough not to fear death. ERIK ERIKSON My new passion is to get Internet education mandated in all schools. We've got to start teaching... ERIK ESTRADA The more you know yourself, the more patience you have for what you see in others. ERIK ERIKSON As a rule, I am very skeptical of tying books to anniversaries. I don't think readers care. I al... ERIK LARSON When we looked at the life cycle in our 40s, we looked to old people for wisdom. At 80, though, we l... ERIK ERIKSON You see a child play, and it is so close to seeing an artist paint, for in play a child says things ... ERIK ERIKSON In the social jungle of human existence, there is no feeling of being alive without a sense of ident... ERIK ERIKSON I have found from experience that it is often interesting and useful to start from the edges and wor... ERIK LARSON