Rather than letting our negativity get the better of us, we could acknowledge that right now we feel like a piece of shit and not be squeamish about taking a good look.
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Related I think it's worth the community looking into, although it may not be right for us. Right now, we're... MEL PEARLMAN Very rarely, since I've been at Connecticut, have we had somebody that we expected to be good just g... BARBARA TURNER Writing it all down is like taking a good shit, if done right you probably feel empty afterwards. SOLANGE NICOLE “Life is a forever learning lesson. It’s all about how we handle situations every day and not le... BILL SCHUFFENHAUER This piece of paper could look like a Monet to me. This is as good a looking sheet as you can hope f... MIKE STOOPS We feel that rather than advertise for it we're going to look down and pick people or a person who w... JACKIE HENDRIKS I don't know if we think it's going to be an easy schedule when we are playing teams like Columbus a... CHRIS MASON We just feel really good right now. Now we have to get our game plan together, add to our positives ... CRYSTAL KEMP And meanwhile time goes about its immemorial work of making everyone look and feel like shit. You go... MARTIN AMIS Society tells us that we all need to win. That's how we make ourselves better. But when you get righ... DAVID BOUDOLF Right now, we are taking a good look at the recycle stations that are located at various points with... DICK HAMM In that respect, we feel good about our progress. We can feel like we're getting better. JOEL DUNN We're just not playing as well as we could right now. We're just kind of laying back and letting the... DAMON SUBLETT The key thing for us right now is to not lose our belief in each other, in this team being a good te... DAVE SIMON It would be a remarkable thing for all of us. Right now, we feel like we can accomplish a lot of thi... LAVOY ALLEN You look so blindingly cute right now, I feel like I need to make a pinhole in a piece of paper just... RAINBOW ROWELL We learn that our spirit is not apart from us; it is a part of us. We gain awareness of the exact na... NARCOTICS ANONYMOUS Fear keeps us focused on the past or worried about the future. If we can acknowledge our fear, we ca... THICH NHAT HANH If we choose to look at the negativity it is likely we may be victim of uncertainty and may put ours... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA If we choose to look at the negativity it is likely we may be victim of uncertainty and may put ours... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA It is a very laborious process, but we feel accuracy is more important than expediency. I'm not goin... DAWN ROBERTS The answer isn't more time but a greater awareness of the time we have. CRAIG GROESCHEL When I'm not feeling good about how I look, I figure if I just buy the right piece of clothing, ... JANE LYNCH This gives us a good start. We feel a lot better winning than losing. We think there is going to be ... BILL HARRELSON For right now, we're asking a lot of a few players. I think that eventually they'll deliver. But wha... LESLE GALLIMORE From the outfield to the infield, we can pretty much throw a ball and get it anywhere pretty quickly... VANCE ARNOLD Self-kindness: Being warm and understanding toward ourselves when we suffer, fail, or feel inadequat... BRENé BROWN We look at the African-American community, for a long time those of us who be considered strong - bl... RYAN COOGLER I know we're better than what we've shown. We haven't hit our stride. It's all about confidence for ... JOSH GENTLE When I look out in the morning when we get up, I feel like I live in Paris. I look out over the roof... DEBBIE METZ They did a good job of jamming us up on that last play, not letting us get off a good shot. But we d... KATIE DOUGLAS Well, I just don’t want you to think that this piece of shit is anything other than a pathetic, hu... JHONEN VáSQUEZ We have a good nucleus of hitters back, and if we get some support from the younger kids, we'll be r... JANET LUGGE I really think we are getting better. We're taking better shots and not rushing things. I really bel... HOLLY TREAT It's embarrassing. We know we were brutal. We sucked. The fans told us and they were right about tha... DONALD BRASHEAR Oh, definitely, people have to look at us a little differently now. That's a good team we beat. But ... ED HARTWELL And meanwhile time goes about its immemorial work of making everyone look and feel like shit. MARTIN AMIS It's a big year for me. We could get promoted, and I could play for Ireland in the World Cup in Germ... CLINTON MORRISON We knew if we had a good day today that there would be a chance we could start to pull away. Usually... EVAN SHAW Everywhere we go, people are shouting at us, asking us for our autographs. Honestly, I feel like a c... FOLARIN CAMPBELL You must save what you can of your life; you musn't lose it all simply because you've lost a part. HENRY JAMES It's hard to look forward to next year right now, but I'm sure tomorrow I'll feel better thinking ab... BILL OLIN It may or may not be. It's a good initial step to do it (cut inventories). I commend them for taking... BILL SELTENHEIM We just need to find a way to make things go right. It's all about us doing the right things. We hav... BRANDON STOCKTON The girls are 4-0 right now, which is better than where I thought we would be right now. Kara gets a... AARON RICH We balanced our schedule out the best that we could. We are fortunate to have a lot of home games ea... ERNIE NESTOR Right now the biggest difference between us and West Sioux are our second and third runners, because... GREG MEISTER The team gave us a really good car despite the little practice time we had but we still don't have t... ANDY WALLACE We know we're grown-up guys, and we have families and stuff, but we've taken that as a positive sour... DAVID CROSBY We feel like we are playing our best ball right now so we feel confident going in. It is just a matt... DON HENRY Cooking a piece of fish and cooking it right. Knowing the fish, knowing the properties of the fish. ... GEOFFREY ZAKARIAN We're not going to win all 82 games straight. Guys get tired, sometimes we lose our focus. We lose g... CARLOS ARROYO There is lip service and there is reality. The fact is the teamwork is not balanced. The U.S. prefer... HARIYADI WIRAWAN We feel good about the win and know that even when we were losing, we were playing good tennis. We f... DAN SILVERSTEIN That's totally not my call. I'm definitely not looking for more playing time as of right now. I just... ADAM FITCH Empathy is the new measurement of everything. It doesn't matter what religion you have, what God you... C. JOYBELL C. It will be more like linebackers than most of us look like now. That's the trend anyway, better athl... JOE DURANT I feel very comfortable with where we are with the Hudson United conversion that we could look at ba... WILLIAM RYAN It's frustrating. There's nothing good I can really say to the girls right now to make them feel bet... DALE WHITAKER Being in the beauty industry has taught me that most of us are never satisfied with how we look. We ... TABATHA COFFEY We habitually erect a barrier called blame that keeps us from communicating genuinely with others, a... PEMA CHöDRöN You came here because we do this better than you and part of that is letting our creatives be unprod... DON DRAPER You're still lovely," Mor said a bit gently. Elain offered a half smile. "I suppose that war m... SARAH J. MAAS Existence was given us for action. Our worth is determined by the good deed we do, rather than by th... EDGAR F. MAGNIN Existence was given us for action. Our worth is determined by the good deed we do, rather than by th... GEORGE MACDONALD We just are not able to execute offensively right now. Our recognition is poor and that leads to us ... BOBBY CARTER We put it on at the right time and were able to get some good things out of it. You have to acknowle... KEITH ARNOLD You have less honour than a piece of shit. ALISON GOODMAN We've prided ourselves in that defense now for five games. We've got a lot of pride in that defense.... LEE JOHNSON I know we're a team that could be better than we are right now. I think that's the most important th... BRIAN FERENTZ We think we could improve in our batting, which has been letting us down. But we have seen some impr... DELROY MORGAN Every game there is something that goes a little wrong, ... Right now we are taking our bumps and br... CHANNING FRYE It's amazingly better. We decided that it'd be better to miss a start now and get better than later. BRANDON MURPHY This gives us a lot of confidence. Right now, I feel like we have a chance to compete in the UMAC. MARCIA EGGEN I'd rather play with 10 people and just get penalized all the way until we have to do something ... MIKE SINGLETARY Voter apathy is a civic abdication. CHARLES M. BLOW Our coaching staff had us prepared so well that I feel like we knew their plays better than ours. BROOKE MCAFEE One of our reporters asked me if we would be scared of the environment. We know it's going to be lou... DAN PIFER Many of us feel stress and get overwhelmed not because we're taking on too much, but because we&... MARCUS BUCKINGHAM He's feeling a little better. Right now, he's day to day. I don't think we can [look] any farther th... EDDIE OLCZYK We should not blame people by the mistakes of others. DANIEL MELGAçO We need to educate our elite coaches more and have a better approach to teaching the athletes about ... DOMINIQUE MOCEANU We can spend our lives letting the world tell us who we are. Sane or insane. Saints or sex addicts. ... CHUCK PALAHNIUK It's good for our down-the-line kids and our freshmen to get a chance to play, because as the fall w... BOBBY HAUCK In terms of cricket I would rather think we get on with the game now and play to our potential, than... MARVAN ATAPATTU We felt like our kids were in the right frame of mind. We thought it better to get [the game] out of... BILL BOWLES I think we could do better, but I think we did good. We had a lot of really good help. I feel really... ANITA CARLTON We were young last time, too, and we ended up being 4-12 the next year. I'd like to think we'll be b... BRIAN URLACHER I am hoping that we will be better than we were last year. We have a lot of young guys that could he... IVAN SWENDRZYNSKI Our guys are going to swim a lot this weekend. We want to look at how they can handle that. It'll ce... BRIAN HOFFER That's our roadblock. So even though we could be down a couple bodies, I think it's definitely a goo... DEREK FISHER As we get older, we get better at choosing in ways that will make us happy. We do a better job at pi... SHEENA IYENGAR We got a feel for losing on the road. Now that we know what it feels like, that has to inspire us to... AMY DENSON Jen did some good things for us tonight. She needed a game like this to test her and to see what she... KATIE DOUGLAS We have no information right now that tells us anything other than we are able to meet the demand ri... DAVID MICA Given the climate right now, naturally, I think all of us are taking a close look at lobbyists and t... CYNTHIA CANARY We are overweight on negativity right now, ... overdone. JOSEPH QUINLAN I have got to do a better job of picking our non-conference games. You could just see right from the... LYLE WILKS Dominion does not mean domination. We hold dominion over animals only because of our powerful and ub... MARC BEKOFF We are taking a look at the use of intelligence, and we're taking a look at the role the Defense Dep... PAT ROBERTS
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