Praise more, blame less.


Jim Genovese

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It is more difficult to praise rightly than to blame.
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Blame is safer than praise.
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Neither blame or praise yourself.
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Neither blame or praise yourself.
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Blame is safer than praise
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I praise loudly, I blame softly.
CATHERINE II OF RUSSIA
I praise loudly, I blame softly
CATHERINE THE GREAT
I praise loudly. I blame softly.
CATHERINE THE GREAT
I praise loudly, I blame softly
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Blame-all and Praise-all are two blockheads
BENJAMIN FRANKLIN
Thus neither the praise nor the blame is our own.
WILLIAM COWPER
I like to praise and reward loudly, to blame quietly.
CATHERINE II
I like to praise and reward loudly, to blame quietly.
CATHERINE THE GREAT
History is the story of events, with praise or blame.
COTTON MATHER
They are good furniture pictures, unworthy of praise, and undeserving of blame.
JOHN RUSKIN
The sad souls of those who lived without blame and without praise.
DANTE ALIGHIERI
Never mind whom you praise, but be very careful who you blame
EDMUND GOSSE
Great tranquility of heart is his who cares for neither praise nor blame.
THOMAS A KEMPIS
The love of praise, howe'er conceal'd by art,Reigns more or less, and glows in ev'ry heart.
EDWARD YOUNG
One is led astray alike by sympathy and coldness, by praise and by blame
JOHANN WOLFGANG VON GOETHE
Blame it or praise it, there is no denying the wild horse in us.
VIRGINIA WOOLF
Praise out of season, or tactlessly bestowed, can freeze the heart as much as blame.
PEARL BUCK
Praise out of season, or tactlessly bestowed, can freeze the heart as much as blame.
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When anyone remains modest, not after praise but after blame, then his modesty is real
JEAN PAUL RICHTER
I pay no attention whatever to anybody's praise or blame. I simply follow my own feelings.
WOLFGANG AMADEUS MOZART
In every age and every man there is something to praise as well as to blame.
JAMES BEATTIE
Praise me not too much, Nor blame me, for thou speakest to the Greeks Who know me.
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I pay no attention whatever to anybody's praise or blame. I simply follow my own feelings.
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Some judge of authors' names, not works, and then nor praise nor blame the writings, but the men.
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Even as a solid rock is unshaken by the wind, so are the wise unshaken by praise or blame.
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