Perhaps a part of us wants to hear that we are not alone in our struggles and that we will come out much stronger and much more beautiful than before.

Don’t give power to others to control your emotions or make you feel inadequate or remind you of your limitations and generally have power over your life. Frankly speaking you don’t need such people- avoid them and keep them miles away from you. You alone are aware of your limitations and your strengths, I’m sure you are capable of handling your life well. God has made you worthy, so inspire, push and help yourself. Remember, God helps those who help themselves.

It is quite likely that while you are praying for God’s mercy and your wishes to be answered He too may be waiting to give you the desired wish. But, you have to at least start working towards it. You can’t just be sitting idle waiting for miracles. You have to work towards it and when the going gets tough, pray to Him to help you out. To seek God’s help you have to help yourself too.

At times life throws seemingly insurmountable odds at us because it wants us to become stronger, grow wings and fly high.

Pretty is over-rated- I would rather be stronger and live life beautifully .

No one is obliged to save, protect or shelter you; if someone helps you out take it as a blessing and be grateful for it. But make every effort to be independent and survive without seeking help from others.