One who fails has not failed absolutely, rather they have learned absolutely

Perseverance is failing 19 times and succeeding the 20th.

Failing doesn't have to mean not succeeding. It can be, 'Hey we tried that. We can go forward, smarter.'

He has this ambivalence with succeeding. It's part of who he is.

to see where it's failing.

Yielding is sometimes the best way of succeeding