One of the ways to do that is to set up bigger-than-normal points of dispense.

The bigger points, he played better.

I literally go out with a set of bullet points,

He was set in his ways. He was stubborn.

In the first set, I won the big points, and in the second and third sets he was the one who came out on top. He's going to get better and better and has a good game to work with.

The bigger points, he played better. He played more relaxed and more confident than I was.