One of my friends from our group is having terrifying flashbacks.

We watched them pull her mother out of the water on the boat next to us. I was sort of holding Carol Ann. She wanted to go to her mother. Another man saw his wife floating. He was crying on my chest.

I put my hand up and he took my hand. I'd never had a handshake like that one. He smiled down at me and I smiled back. That was the moment I knew for sure I was going to make it.

I remember going to London with my friends after we'd seen Desperately Seeking Susan wearing my Dad's old paisley housecoat, some long johns and lots of crosses.

The more you lovethe more you'll findthat life is goodand friends are kindand only what we give awayenriches us from day to day.

Hospice is a wonderful organization. I've met so many new friends, and my work helps keep my mind alert.