One major way to avoid shifting blames unto other people is to accept and agree that the efforts that turn the loads of your self- improvement have to turn on your own pivot.

You are responsible for who you become... Love yourself, Like your speed; Leave your scars; Live your skills!

You have what others don't have. This is good news which means you can do what others can't do! You are unique; so are others!

Avoid the penalties of the blame game. You were born to be boss player, not a blame giver. Stop the blame!

You don’t expect the goat to hatch the hen’s eggs. People do what they know very well. Don’t expect someone who doesn’t know what you know to do it for you. Do it yourself.

You cannot be accountable with the products of someone else's mind; no man is known for a skillful hunting by the number of bush meats gathered by another man!