Men's need to dominate women may be based in their own sense of marginality or emptiness; we do not know its root, and men are making no effort to discover it

Men seem unable to feel equal to women: they must be superior or they are inferior

Oh, God, why don't I remember that a little chaos is good for the soul?

Anyone determined to find another person or group inferior can always find whole lists of grounds that demonstrate inferiority because we are all inferior to the ideals of humanness we have erected.

I hate discussions of feminism that end up with who does the dishes, she said. So do I. But at the end, there are always the damned dishes.

Oh, God, why don't I remember that a little chaos is good for the soul?