Men are what they are because of what they do. Not what they say,' said Ove

Actions speak louder than words, and it's no more true than with your kids.

External actions are evidence of internal beliefs. Our deeds are what show our creeds.

Words are important; actions are vital, but don’t just show your thoughts through your words or actions! Let your unique works speak your thought and action!

so who's more adult- somebody who works like mad to avoid a problem or somebody who works like mad to solve it?

Life is too short to be around someone that says they love you but doesn't show it.