Love should be safe to be completely open and honest. No one should have to hold their feelings back, fearing how another will react. Love understands first, without being defensive, judging or correcting. If one cannot speak to whom they love, they may find someone else that will listen. ~Nick Mansilla

Solutions do not exist in change, but rather in acceptance. We do not grow while we run, but rather when face our circumstances with love and compassion in our heart, without the fear of loss.~Nick Mansilla

I'm thinking about my Angel again. Thinking about looking deep into your beautiful and remarkable eyes. Seeing you you smile even before your expression makes it to your soft and luscious lips. Holding you tightly in my arms, as if it were the first and last time I will ever live this moment. As if I have never before, and I will never ever love this way again...

Did I do and say these things? Yes, I did. Are there any mitigating circumstances? Not really, unless any circumstances {in other words, context) can be regarded as mitigating. And before you judge, although you have probably already done so, go away and write down the four worst things you have done to a partner, even if - especially if - your partner doesn't know about them. Don't dress things up, or try to explain them; just write them down, in a list, in the plainest language possible. Finished? Ok, so who's the arsehole now?

Just because they're a "loser" doesn't mean they'll always be

If you call someone a loser then you don't know them