Looking at the wound and nurturing the pain does not give you a sense of healing. Treat the would to a scar then move on by learning to love and appreciate that scar, regardless of how you got it.

Love and appreciate me for me, not through set societal standards.

In life, even if you have delegated, you are fully accountable, no matter how embarrassing or hard to accept are the consequences.

There's no rule book to respond to anything that comes your way - face it, deal with it - just don't hurt yourself and don't hurt other people because we are all buffeted by things we can't control with that magic wand.

Deal with your current affairs now, have their facts in order, because they have a tendency of resurfacing as ghosts of the past; as background check or as some research in history and whether you like it or not, that is your life - so handle it with love and care while you still have the opportunity.

Finding faults in someone and ignoring the great moments and experiences you always shared, slowly kills the great moments and experiences you always shared.