Life is really pretty tricky, and there's a lot of loss, and the longer you stay alive, the more people you lose whom you actually couldn't live without.
Anne Lamott
Related I like to open for a band as it brings on sort of a challenge and it makes things more interesting. ... KELLY JONES Playing live is really the art form. You're a lot freer, a lot looser. You've got people the... BUTCH TRUCKS You live in intimate association with bacteria, and you couldn't survive without them. BONNIE BASSLER Animation is awesome because there's a really bold type of comedy you can get away with that you... CHRISTOPHER MILLER I want to stay alive. Yeah, I want to stay alive. I think that's the main thing. If there's ... JACK RAMSAY If you live in a family or have five roommates, there's some sort of reality check, but when you... CLAIRE MESSUD That's a curious paradox that I don't think a lot of people out there know; that you get rea... JACQUELINE MCKENZIE The more cats you have, the longer you live. If you have a hundred cats, you'll live 10 times lo... CHARLES BUKOWSKI Long-time viewing of Internet violence tend to change a person's temperament, making the person pron... YOU QUANXI If positive and healthy materials are absent, negative materials are sure to be dominant in the cybe... YOU QUANXI In a robust global business environment, our business units operated well in the first quarter. More... HARRY YOU The Board of Directors and I are pleased to recognize Peter's outstanding contribution to the succes... HARRY YOU We are pleased to close the books on 2004 following the painstaking review of almost five years of f... HARRY YOU If you resolve to give up smoking, drinking and loving, you don't actually live longer; it just ... CLEMENT FREUD You know what's funny? There's times when you catch a ball and really didn't even see th... CALVIN JOHNSON There's nothing more confirming in your life than looking in front of you and seeing some really... KATHLEEN EDWARDS Touring is tough. You're almost in a haze because you don't really know where you are half t... VANESSA HUDGENS I couldn't open up a magazine, you couldn't read a newspaper, you couldn't turn on the T... MORGAN SPURLOCK Treachery has existed as long as there's been warfare, and there's always been a few people ... JAMES MATTIS I did plays in high school, but I was convinced you couldn't make a living doing it. You don'... ADAM DRIVER When you have a lot of money, there's so many places you can go to manage your money. But when y... ALEXA VON TOBEL There's a gray area between Conservative and Orthodox people, for whom you don't screw aroun... RICK MORANIS You just couldn't be in George Romney's presence without some of his goodness and integrity ... TAGG ROMNEY There's enough data showing that the fitter you are, the better you eat, the more likely you are... ANNE WOJCICKI Love bravely, live bravely, be courageous, there's really nothing to lose. There's no wrong ... JEWEL People lose people, we lose things in our life as we're constantly growing and changing. That's what... THOMAS JANE I love theatre. It's far more satisfying than film. Sometimes there's a collective sigh from... KATIE LEUNG I live in England, so I take a lot of trains, and you can't really go anywhere without somebody ... PATRICK NESS You can't escape this feeling of disintegration. The world is fragile. But you also can't le... MICHAEL SHANNON You make a great investment in the consumer Internet, maybe you make a lot of money and create somet... BILL MARIS Physical activity - even if you don't lose an ounce, you'll live longer, feel healthier and ... TOM FRIEDEN If your parent is deployed and you are that young, you spend the whole time wondering where they are... SUZANNE COLLINS Most people live in the city and go to the country at the weekend, and that's posh and aristocra... DAMIEN HIRST There is undoubtedly a lot of pressure that comes with recognition, which can be a good thing and ba... PRABAL GURUNG I wouldn't ever say if you're having tough times then there must be something wrong with you... JOEL OSTEEN You live with the fear people might find out. Then you actually have the courage to tell people and ... PORTIA DE ROSSI You meet a lot of people and have a lot of experiences, and they color you and stay with you - but I... EMMYLOU HARRIS A lot of people said this was impossible. 'You can't build biotech for $50,000. You can'... ARVIND GUPTA When you give a lot of confidence in people and you don't get it back, you are a bit disappointe... CARINE ROITFELD There's been a lot of simple vilification of right-wing people. It's really easy to say, ... LOUIS C. K. You can't live the rest of your life carrying a pain because your parents couldn't get along... JASON MRAZ You need to feel that the game is important to you. Lose that feeling and you lose your edge. There&... DAN MARINO The reality is I meet a lot of actresses. They're wonderful, beautiful ladies. It's pretty h... DAVID SUTCLIFFE Anything you can do to get more people to come to your live shows is good, because that's where ... NATASHA LEGGERO You can't make anything without making mistakes, do you know what I mean? Robert De Niro's i... JAMES CORDEN One of the things that gets confused often is the difference between marriage and good marriage. Mar... REBECCA TRAISTER The limelight is a tricky place, because you can't believe what's going on around you. You s... VERA FARMIGA Arizona is really cool but I couldn't stay there for too long. DAR WILLIAMS A lot of people thought you couldn't be a top-level athlete as a vegan, but people like Mac Danz... DANIEL BRYAN When I'm not on the road, I try to intake about 300 grams of protein a day, which is a lot. I go... ALBERT HAMMOND, JR. Technology has changed the fan/actor interaction quite a bit. Now it's really easy to communicat... MISHA COLLINS You know a lot of times you'll find girls in a club are jaded to the other girls in the club. Th... WILLA FORD You can never really live anyone else's life, not even your child's. The influence you exert... ELEANOR ROOSEVELT It's tricky, performing the show live. Because when you're in a big auditorium, in front of ... IRA GLASS You can't let yourself be pushed around. You can't live in fear. I mean, some people do live... BERNHARD GOETZ A 'gossip partner' is someone you love and trust, with whom you may go through the day's... REBECCA PIDGEON As I wrote I began to see more strongly that there were inescapable analogies. You couldn't real... BARRY UNSWORTH During President George W. Bush's two terms, you couldn't drive far without seeing a particu... MONICA CROWLEY When people say, 'You have Alzheimer's,' you have no idea what Alzheimer's is. You k... NANCY REAGAN Much protective self-criticism stems from growing up around people who wouldn't or couldn't ... MARTHA BECK There's a lot of haters in Philly, but it's a lot of people that give you support - but way ... LIL UZI VERT I'm pretty easily overwhelmed and pretty tough as well. I think I'm tougher than I used to b... NATHANIEL RATELIFF I know it's a lot harder for women who don't have enough help, but the truth is, no matter h... PATRICIA RICHARDSON I really enjoy my philanthropic work, traveling around the world and helping people in need. That... LARRY FITZGERALD Finally I almost dropped gymnastics because I couldn't live without create, and you know, and th... OLGA KORBUT When you realize you're alive, you can live life! CHAD MICHAEL MURRAY It's really clear to me that you can't hang onto something longer than its time. Ideas lose ... ALAN ALDA There's a lot of stuff they don't teach you in the mythical editors' school. They don... BILL KELLER When you're on set all day, and you don't look people in the eye, it's really relaxing. ... RYAN CARTWRIGHT I've had some pretty rough interviews. And it's funny when people are interviewing you, and ... VANESSA BAYER Don't you find that the more you know, the more you don't know and can't ever learn beca... LARRY HAGMAN Everything's pretty consistent in the industry, you know. There's a couple of naysayers, wha... WALE You promote your films; it's part of your job. You do the magazine covers and stuff, and then I ... KATE BOSWORTH In the United States, because we are a nation of laws, you can lose an election and keep your life. ... KELLY AYOTTE A lot of people say to me, 'Stay grounded; be humble.' David Schwimmer was just like, 'Y... MILLIE BOBBY BROWN I always felt like Tahliah's a very grown-up name to have. It's a pretty name when you'r... FKA TWIGS A guest star is a whole different responsibility. It's much different than being a regular. You ... DONNIE WAHLBERG I am a Christian person, and I do love the Lord, and I feel no matter who you are, what you believe,... CARRIE UNDERWOOD Before 'Gremlins,' I was a normal person, then within two weeks of the movie coming out, I c... ZACH GALLIGAN Look, I don't want to wax philosophic, but I will say that if you're alive you've got to... MEL BROOKS I'm not a hermit, but I definitely stay in a lot more than I used to. There's more attention... DEREK JETER When you're doing a film, you're on a set and you have retakes and you have time to get it r... MEGAN FOX To me, it's not necessarily about whom you vote for, it's more about the fact that you go ou... ROBERT GRIFFIN III You really couldnt take four more different people together, BRANDEN STEINECKERT I actually read 'Wonder Woman,' and here's the thing about her: she's more of a phys... JAIMIE ALEXANDER You tried to help the people of the market. You mostly failed. This is life. The longer you live, th... BRANDON SANDERSON You can involve yourself in electronics, computers, puzzles... there's a lot of creativity and b... GARY COLEMAN To me, the magic of photography, per se, is that you can capture an instant of a second that couldn&... MARIO TESTINO There's a lot of pressure being an actor and taking on challenges that people don't expect o... DAVID DENMAN There's no way that music could ever go down the tubes. I can't imagine a civilization witho... CLIVE DAVIS The power of music in Spanish is so strong, that I couldn't stay away from it any longer. ENRIQUE IGLESIAS 'They' is... stay away from them, please. There is so many different definitions of 'the... DJ KHALED I just couldn't live without dogs. TARA REID Theatre is immediate, it's alive, you're there with the audience, it can't be done again... KIM CATTRALL For a lot of people, 4chan is their tree house - they go there to hang out. You can actually see the... CHRISTOPHER POOLE There's people who live life authentically and there's people who live a life of fabrication... MICHAEL MANN There's something about being in front of a live audience that's fun. It's a really inte... STEVEN WRIGHT In a very complex way, things have improved in the dramatic field. Before you had the good and the b... ISABELLE HUPPERT The longer we talked the more comfortable we were. It looks pretty brutal but it is actually a lot s... MIKE MAURER Love is a really scary thing, and you never know what's going to happen. It's one of the mos... ARIANA GRANDE
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ANNE LAMOTT Age has given me what I was looking for my entire life - it has given me me . It has provide... ANNE LAMOTT You want to protect your child from pain, and what you get instead is life, and grace; and though th... ANNE LAMOTT Rule 1: When all else fails, follow instructions. And Rule 2: Don't be an asshole. ANNE LAMOTT Rest and laughter are the most spiritual and subversive acts of all. Laugh, rest, slow down. ANNE LAMOTT I'm here to be me, which is taking a great deal longer than I had hoped. ANNE LAMOTT This is one thing they forget to mention in most child-rearing books, that at times you will just lo... ANNE LAMOTT Certainty is missing the point entirely. ANNE LAMOTT Help" is a prayer that is always answered. It doesn't matter how you pray--with your head bowed in s... ANNE LAMOTT Forgiveness means it finally becomes unimportant that you hit back. You're done. It doesn't necessar... ANNE LAMOTT Hope is not about proving anything. It's about choosing to believe this one thing, that love is bigg... ANNE LAMOTT A good marriage is where both people feel like they're getting the better end of the deal. ANNE LAMOTT Underneath all things means that beneath the floorboards, in the depths, in the spaces between the p... ANNE LAMOTT These are the words I want on my gravestone: that I was a helper, and that I danced." ANNE LAMOTT I still encourage anyone who feels at all compelled to write to do so. I just try to warn people who... ANNE LAMOTT But how?" my students ask. "How do you actually do it?" You sit down, I say. You try to sit do... ANNE LAMOTT I do not understand the mystery of grace -- only that it meets us where we are and does not leave us... ANNE LAMOTT Your problem is how you are going to spend this one odd and precious life you have been issued. Whet... ANNE LAMOTT I got a lot of things that society had promised would make me whole and fulfilled - all the things t... ANNE LAMOTT رفض ما دون الكمال ، ينطوي على كثير من الظلم والعداء للإ�... ANNE LAMOTT I didn't write about my mother much in the third year after she died. I was still trying to get ... ANNE LAMOTT I like the desert for short periods of time, from inside a car, with the windows rolled up, and the ... ANNE LAMOTT When I was a kid, our family used to watch 'Bonanza.' I really liked having a Sunday night T... ANNE LAMOTT I used to love to untangle chains when I was a child. I had thin, busy fingers, and I never gave up.... ANNE LAMOTT A good marriage is supposed to be one where each spouse secretly thinks he or she got the better dea... ANNE LAMOTT See how the fearful chandelier Trembles above you Each time you open your mouth To sing. Sing. —DO... ANNE LAMOTT After a while the middle-aged person who lives in her head begins to talk to her soul, the kid. ANNE LAMOTT