Leaving all the decisions to a professional is the No. 1 no-no. Nobody cares about your health or your wealth as you do.

Once Mack was dead, I was just really panicked about making these decisions for myself. And I was way too conservative in my investing for the first two or three years.

If you feel you're being talked down to, then change.

We didn't know that he had bi-polar but it's true of anyone with mental health issues that when they're being managed, they do not talk about it. So it caught all of us by surprise. But when we look back on it, his behavior did change. It became erratic.

Obviously a plea bargain isn't an option, as long as there's nothing on the table to address the mental health issues that are so apparent with Andrea. Given that, the only other option is to go to trial. I don't believe there will be any meaningful negotiations in this matter short of going before a jury.

With this report really says, sadly, is there are no excellent mental health programs in this country. The system is almost indecipherable for people.