It's too soon to tell.

You are scared beyond words. You actually come to believe that you are going to die. If you go through that and then have small acts of kindness, little by little you find yourself feeling an enormous sense of gratitude.

They can't do the work of grieving because their reflex thinking goes to the motive and meaning. You could argue that it's a human impulse. From the families' perspective, it has to be dealt with.

boys, girls and music . . why do they need gin?

It's my fault in many cases because I don't initiate the contact to talk with a lot of other musicians.

My advice to young film-makers is this: don't follow trends, start them!