It is definitely somewhat a crutch of feeling that you have to please others in order to be accepted.

When you please others in hopes of being accepted, you lose you self-worth in the process.

You definitely cannot please everyone at all.

I have a massage when I want to relax. I love being pampered. I love island massages when you're outside in the fresh air.

I'm the type of woman you might say is too good. I'll massage a man's feet, have dinner cooked when he gets home. But once they leave, the door is closed, and the locks are changed.

Because I'm just a giving person spiritually, I feel that if your intentions are to use or abuse or take advantage of, then you might get what you get in the meantime, but there's still a price to pay.