It is almost impossible for anyone, even the most ineffective among us, to continue to choose misery after becoming aware that it is a choice.

Good or bad, everything we do is our best choice at that moment.

We almost always have choices, and the better the choice, the more we will be in control of our lives.

And one day, as she was buried deep in her thoughts, she heard a still small voice ask her "If you could go back in life, what would you have done differently?" And without missing a beat she answered,  "I would have chosen me" And finally, she made the choice...

Too many of us fail to fulfill our needs because we say no rather than yes, or perhaps later in life, yes when we should say no.

To be, or not to be, that is the question.