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ERICH FROMM Some luck lies in not getting what you thought you wanted but getting what you have, which once you ... GARRISON KEILLOR A wedding is a ceremony at which two persons undertake to become one, one undertakes to become nothi... AMBROSE BIERCE There is no love which does not become help. PAUL TILLICH What the computer in virtual reality enables us to do is to recalibrate ourselves so that we can sta... DOUGLAS ADAMS Marriage is not a simple love affair, it's an ordeal, and the ordeal is the sacrifice of ego to a re... JOSEPH CAMPBELL Marriage is not a simple love affair, it’s an ordeal, and the ordeal is the sacrifice of ego to a ... JOSEPH CAMPBELL The striking thing about the Precious Blood is the bond it establishes between love and suffering in... GABRIEL MARCEL Everyone has his own reality in which, if one is not too cautious, timid or frightened, one swims. T... HENRY MILLER Alas, Siddhartha, I see you suffering, but you're suffering a pain at which one would like to laugh,... HERMANN HESSE What you admire in others will develop in yourself. Therefore, to love the ordinary in any one is to... CHRISTIAN D. LARSON One can become a leader only if one is supported by an ideology which makes other people tractable a... LUDWIG VON MISES When you see the abyss, and we have looked into it, then what? There isn't much room at the edge -- ... ELIE WIESEL Even though the Swans have been there for over 20 years now and really built up a loyal following, A... DAVID WHITE If people did not love one another, I really don't see what use there would be in having any spring. VICTOR HUGO Who will tell whether one happy moment of love or the joy of breathing or walking on a bright mornin... ERICH FROMM If you were all alone in the universe with no one to talk to, no one with which to share the beauty ... MITSUGI SAOTOME I always thought of it like you said, that all the strings inside him broke. But there are a thousan... JOHN GREEN It is not true that the assertion of spiritual principle is vain because we can not see at the momen... ROLAND ALLEN No one can believe how powerful prayer is and what it can effect, except those who have learned it b... MARTIN LUTHER Most of what we've done at SurveyMonkey is create a market, which I would say is much harder tha... DAVE GOLDBERG Marriage is one sweet way in which one can taste heaven on earth. Similarly, I can also become hell ... ISRAELMORE AYIVOR How do you know if something is real? That’s easy. Does it change you? Does it form you? Does it g... C. JOYBELL C. The one who has become free from all mistakes, he has no superior over him; he needs no one to repri... DADA BHAGWAN There is an unborn, a not-become, a not-made, a not-compounded. There cannot be any escape from what... BUDDHA Martyrdom, sir, is what these people like; it is the only way in which a man can become famous witho... GEORGE BERNARD SHAW What is love? It is not simply compassion, not simply kindness. In compassion there are two: t... NIKOS KAZANTZAKIS What is love? It is not simply compassion, not simply kindness. In compassion there are two: the one... NIKOS KAZANTZAKIS If i wanted to become a monk, I would have ultimately become the Bishop.If i wanted to become a sold... PABLO PICASSO I only know acting. But had I learnt singing earlier, I would have become a singer. JUHI CHAWLA It is what it is, it is what you make it. JAMES DURBIN They'll go up there for a while, try to find work and come back, but if in fact they're away from th... DOUG MAY I love scoring. Putting music to picture is a rewarding challenge and one that relies on interpretat... LIZ PHAIR You'll never get anywhere if you go about what-iffing like that. ROALD DAHL Stand for something. Make your life mean something. Start where you are with what you have. You are ... GERMANY KENT What I assert and believe to have demonstrated in this and earlier works is that following the finit... GEORG CANTOR Resignation, not mystic, not detached, but resignation open-eyed, conscious, and informed by love, i... JOSEPH CONRAD "Love is the bond which makes it possible for hearts and souls to become one." ~ Tom Baker TOM BAKER AKA THE PONDERING MAN Life at any time can become difficult: life at any time can become easy. It all depends upon how one... MORARJI DESAI Life at any time can become difficult: life at any time can become easy. It all depends upon how one... MORAJI R. DESAI Who knows what would have become of me, if my parents had not had their influence on me. OTTO SCHILY If you keep at it, one day something which at first appeared impossible will become merely something... DANNY PARADISE There is, therefore, only one categorical imperative. It is: Act only according to that maxim by whi... IMMANUEL KANT If you have never seen beauty in a moment of suffering, you have never seen beauty at all. If you ha... FRIEDRICH VON SCHILLER While one was an undergraduate, one could feel virtuous and indignant at the vices of Oxford, at lea... THOMAS HUGHES For years I played the what-if game. Maybe you're acquainted with this pastime. The rules are simple... CRAIG GROESCHEL Dreams are our goals and hopes which can become our reality. DEBBIE NICHOLSON This draft in particular, no one had any idea which way it would go. JOSH CHILDRESS The features of our face are hardly more than gestures which have become permanent MARCEL PROUST If we were to pursue a way to unlearn what society has instilled in us as being valuable or successf... TROY J. GAINEY As long as there is rape... there is not going to be any peace or justice or equality or freedom. Yo... ANDREA DWORKIN Medicine was certainly intended to be a career. I wanted to become a psychiatrist, an adolescent amb... J. G. BALLARD There is not only no free state which would now establish it, but there is no slave state, which, if... WILLIAM H. SEWARD I think we have a creative impulse where suffering can magnify our work, but so can joy. You can be ... PATTI SMITH Because it is the nature of love to create, a marriage itself is something which has to be created, ... MADELEINE L'ENGLE There could not have been a lovelier sight; but there was none to see it except a little boy who was... J.M. BARRIE What marriage offers - and what fidelity is meant to protect - is the possibility of moments when wh... WENDELL BERRY The important thing is this: to be able, at any moment, to sacrifice what we are for what we could b... MAHARISHI MAHESH YOGI The important thing is this: to be able at any moment to sacrifice what we are for what we could bec... CHARLES DU BOS The important thing is this: To be able at any moment to sacrifice what we are for what we could bec... CHARLES DUBOIS The important thing is this: to be able at any moment to sacrifice what we are for what we could bec... UNKNOWN It had been an embarrassing moment, like the one you get when you realize for the first time that yo... SORIN SUCIU Virtual reality is a tough sell for a software developer. They have to convince investors that not o... PALMER LUCKEY . . . there is no perfect knowledge which can be entitled ours, that is innate; none but what has be... WILLIAM HARVEY There is a certain age at which a child looks at you in all earnestness and delivers a long, pleased... ANNIE DILLARD There is one in the world who feels for him who is sad a keener pang than he feels for himself; ther... WASHINGTON IRVING No conquest can ever become permanent which does not show itself beneficial to the conquered as well... THOMAS CARLYLE Surrendering: The act of giving yourself entirely to a new self, and then let go of your personal fr... ROBIN SACREDFIRE When we become strangely silent on increasing interference of Worldly norms into Church culture and ... SANTOSH THANKACHAN To be human, that's what most of us long for. It is the human which has become myth to us. ANNE RICE But what then is capital punishment but the most premeditated of murders, to which no criminal's dee... ALBERT CAMUS I have yet to see any problem, however complicated, which, when you looked at it in the right way, d... POUL ANDERSON But what is the sense in forever speculating what might have happened had such and such a moment tur... KAZUO ISHIGURO We have seen a central government promote the power of labor-union bosses, and in turn be supported ... ROBERT W. WELCH, JR. We become what we love and who we love shapes what we become. If we love things, we become a thing. ... ST. CLARE OF ASSISI If the artists would just keep hammering away - unify, stick together - then music will become the k... GARTH BROOKS There is a joy in sorrow which none but a mourner can know. JEAN PAUL RICHTER It is natural for a person to make a mistake (commit a fault). What is the way to become free from t... DADA BHAGWAN What this tournament represents is a mid-season gut-check. There are 16 good teams in this tournamen... KAREN ANDERSON In the short term, it would make me happy to go play outside. In the long term, it would make me hap... BILL WATTERSON Women think they can act like evil monsters from hell and be loved like a princess. It's as if the d... ROBIN SACREDFIRE For most people love is a fantasy but for others it is a fantasy that can become a reality DANNY OQUENDO I now have 10-year-olds asking me about how to become successful, how to become a business owner, wh... MICHELLE PHAN What I find compelling is the moment in which people realize, with suffering and pain, that in the p... PAOLO SORRENTINO What is saiyam parinaam? 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MARCEL PROUST It smells all right; it makes your head go round; it catches your breath; you feel ticklish all over... MARCEL PROUST I cannot express the uneasiness caused in me by this intrusion of mystery and beauty into a room I h... MARCEL PROUST ... whose inferiority proclaimed her own supremacy so loud... MARCEL PROUST ... I felt that I was not penetrating to the full depth of my impression, that something more lay be... MARCEL PROUST Unkindness is inspired by hatred, anger fuels it into action in which there is no great joy; it woul... MARCEL PROUST The true paradises are the paradises that we have lost. MARCEL PROUST The real voyage of discovery consists not in making new landscapes but in
having new eyes. MARCEL PROUST And at once I fell in love with her, for if it is sometimes enough to make us love a woman that she ... MARCEL PROUST It may well have been, too, that the smiling moderation with which she faced and answered these blas... MARCEL PROUST All these things and, still more than these, the treasures which had come to the church from persona... MARCEL PROUST We do not receive wisdom, we must discover it for ourselves, after a journey through the wilderness ... MARCEL PROUST It is not because other people are dead that our affection for them grows faint, it is because we ou... MARCEL PROUST It is seldom indeed that one parts on good terms, because if one were on good terms, one would not p... MARCEL PROUST Happiness is beneficial for the body, but it is grief that develops the powers of the mind MARCEL PROUST In a separation it is the one who is not really in love who says the more tender things. MARCEL PROUST The true paradises are the lost paradises. MARCEL PROUST We are healed of a suffering only by expressing it to the full. MARCEL PROUST Time, which changes people, does not alter the image we have retained of them MARCEL PROUST If only for the sake of elegance, I try to remain morally pure. MARCEL PROUST We don't receive wisdom; We must discover it. MARCEL PROUST Our intonations contain our philosophy of life, what each of us is constantly telling himself about ... MARCEL PROUST Like many intellectuals, he was incapable of saying a simple thing in a simple way MARCEL PROUST All the products of one period have something in common; the artists who illustrate the poetry of th... MARCEL PROUST She poured out Swann's tea, inquired "Lemon or cream?" and, on his answering "Cream, please," said t... MARCEL PROUST The whole art of living is to use the people who make us suffer simply as steps enabling us to obtai... MARCEL PROUST Then from those profound slumbers we awake in a dawn, not knowing who we are, being nobody, newly bo... MARCEL PROUST The inertia of the mind urges it to slide down the easy slope of imagination, rather than to climb t... MARCEL PROUST Sometimes, as Eve was born from one of Adam’s ribs, a woman was born during my sleep from a crampe... MARCEL PROUST I loved her [Gilberte]; I was sorry not to have had the time and the inspiration to insult her, to h... MARCEL PROUST If a little dreaming is dangerous, the cure for it is not to dream less, but to dream more, to dream... MARCEL PROUST Every person is destroyed when we cease to see him; after which his next appearance is a new creatio... MARCEL PROUST I feel that there is much to be said for the Celtic belief that the souls of those whom we have lost... MARCEL PROUST I did not wait to hear the end of my father's story, for I had been with him myself after mass when ... MARCEL PROUST In theory one is aware that the earth revolves, but in practice one does not perceive it, the ground... MARCEL PROUST I put down my cup and examine my own mind. It is for it to discover the truth. But how? What an abys... MARCEL PROUST Now my uncle knew many of them [actresses] personally, and also ladies of another class, not clearly... MARCEL PROUST She observed the dumb-show by which her neighbour was expressing her passion for music, but she refr... MARCEL PROUST We don't receive wisdom we must discover it for ourselves. MARCEL PROUST Most of our faculties lie dormant because they can rely upon Habit, which knows what there is to be ... MARCEL PROUST The time which we have at our disposal every day is elastic; the passions that we feel expand it, th... MARCEL PROUST Those whose suffering is due to love are, as we say of certain invalids, their own physicians. MARCEL PROUST As soon as one is unhappy one becomes moral MARCEL PROUST We do not succeed in changing things according to our desire, but gradually our
desire changes. The ... MARCEL PROUST Habit is a second nature which prevents us from knowing the first, of which it has neither the cruel... MARCEL PROUST The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes MARCEL PROUST In his younger days a man dreams of possessing the heart of the woman whom he loves; later, the feel... MARCEL PROUST It is often hard to bear the tears that we ourselves have caused MARCEL PROUST It was fortunate that I had not already yielded to the temptation to break with Albertine; the tediu... MARCEL PROUST It was not only Odette's indifference, however, that he must take pains to circumvent; it was also, ... MARCEL PROUST Perhaps she would not have thought of wickedness as a state so rare, so abnormal, so exotic, one whi... MARCEL PROUST [T]his jealousy gave him, if anything, an agreeable chill, as, to the sad Parisian who is leaving Ve... MARCEL PROUST My mother repressed a shudder of apprehension, for, being more rapid in perception than my father, s... MARCEL PROUST These dreams reminded me that, since I wished some day to become a writer, it was high time to decid... MARCEL PROUST The thirst for something other than what we have…to bring something new, even if it is worse, some... MARCEL PROUST It was in the defects that they [servants] invariably acquired that I learned of my own natural, inv... MARCEL PROUST Es mejor soñar una vida que vivirla, aunque vivirla siga siendo soñarla, pero menos misteriosament... MARCEL PROUST Para estar al borde del mar no hay más que cerrar los ojos. MARCEL PROUST